Community› The Bump Message Boards› Baby Showers
Baby Showers
New Discussion

Two showers....vent

klar4230klar4230 member
in Baby Showers

I plan on having two showers...one where I am from (before baby) and one where we live (after baby)....I am worried about my MIL and SIL's being upset...the wedding shower they threw me was so awkward for me that I really didn't enjoy it (was supposed to be a couple's shower and they made DH leave, even though his mom was there when we made the invites out as K and M's couple's shower, people that I didn't know were invited and came just because they were at his sister's showers( non family)). 

 That is why I don't want to have one before baby....my DH says they are fine with it, but I do still feel bad my mom is getting to throw me one and not them.....I'm not sure what to do...

Report Reply to Post

Re: Two showers....vent

  • 1026pumpkin1026pumpkin member
    Huh?  I'm not entirely sure what you're asking here, but 1. you shouldn't/shouldn't have been involved in planning your own baby or bridal showers, including sending out invites; 2. don't feel bad that someone "gets" to throw you a shower and someone
    BabyFetus Ticker; Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • UnknownUnknown
    This content has been removed.
  • jackson290721jackson290721 member
    Are you asking if it's okay to decline a shower? have a shower? or just frustrated with people? I'm so confused. 
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    because it didn't fucking snow enough for me to build my own
    Report Reply
  • mben1119mben1119 member
    imageBliss+Berry:

    My first impression of this post is that you must think really highly of yourself if you think your MIL and SIL a

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • HelenahhandbasketHelenahhandbasket member

    OP, I am not sure what having a shower before your baby is born or after your baby is born had to do with anything, TBH.

    I can't imagine anyone being "upset" that they didn't "get" to throw a shower.  If you are concerned about your MIL feel

     

    BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12

    Lilypie - (TUWi)

     

    Report Reply
  • HappyMrsKHappyMrsK member

    I'm not really following you, but it sounds like you are afraid you will upset your MIL & SIL by not letting them throw you a shower?

    If they have not offered to throw you a baby shower then stop worrying, problem solved.

    If they have

    Report Reply
  • grammarpolice2000grammarpolice2000 member
    OP, I think you are borderline illiterate. None of that made sense. 
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • JUSTMENU4JUSTMENU4
    imageklar4230:

    I plan on having two showers...one where I am from (before baby) and one where we live (after baby)....I am worri

    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"