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xp: Lost Baby A

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 I was 10 weeks and 4 days yesterday and we went today for our 1st ultrasound with our MFM, the minute the thing hit my stomach I could tell something was wrong. The tech did her stuff and didn't say ANYTHING, so I flat out looked at her and said what's wrong and she said she couldn't find baby A's heartbeat. 

The dr came in and I really liked her, first time meeting her. Baby B is measuring 10 weeks and 5 days and has a strong heartbeat, but she confirmed that baby A didn't have a heartbeat and was measuring 9 weeks 5 days. We are heartbroken, but yet feel such a conflicting feeling. We of course are still hopeful and happy that we have baby b but so sad for baby a. I have had no bleeding, no cramping, nothing it is just so bizarre to me. 

 

Thank you again for having me and please say some prayers that our baby b keeps going strong. This journey through IF and now this is a real you know what.  

  

ME- 35    DH- 40
TTC #1 
IVF#1 w ICSI- 4/20/11 ER, 6 Eggs, 4 Fertilized, 4/25/11 5 day ET, 2 blasts- 5/4- Beta= BFN- No Frosties 

IVF #2 w ICSI-6/21/11 ER, 4 Eggs, 2 Fertilized, 6/24/11 3 day ET 2 embryos- Beta 7/5/11- BFN- No frosties.
NEW RE
IUI #1- started 50ius of follistim 1/25, IUI 2/3/12 - BFN
AMH-0.73- DOR 2/2012

IUI #2- 3/17/12 started 200ius of Follistim , 3/24/12 added ganirelix, 225ius Follistim and 75ius of repronex, IUI- 3/30/12, Beta April 13, 2012-BFN

Appointment with Dr. Schoolcraft at CCRM July 18, 2012
WAITING ON A MIRACLE AT THIS POINT
AMH tested again 1/2013- 1.4!!!!
IUI #3- 1/14/13 started 200ius of Follistim, 1/20/13 added menopur and ganirelix, IUI 1/25/13. Positive HPT 2/6/13- Beta #1- 193- BFP!!! 2/8/13-Beta#2-426.6
2/26 ultrasound #1- TWINS!
Delivered a healthy beautiful baby boy on 10/17/13 10ls. 2 ounces

TTC #2 
AMH .75 VERY POOR RESPONDER
IUI #4 cancelled due to only one egg responding 
IUI#5 cancelled on CD 10,  (3) follicules were still very small even on 300 IU's of Follistim. Also found fluid in my uterus from C-section scar
BFP- 8/9/15 
Beta #1 8/10/15 13DPO-   9.2 (fingers crossed this sticks)
Beta #2 8/12/15 15DPO   39- progesterone 18 
Beta #3 8/14/15    111- progesterone 17.5
Ultrasound August 31- 


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  • KerCo51KerCo51 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  FX that Baby B keeps going strong.

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  • tate62610tate62610 member
    ohhhhh :(  I'm so sorry.  Lots of prayers for a happy healthy baby b and mama!
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  • msmarshmsmarsh member
    Sad I'm so sorry about Baby A. There are a few other women on here who have lost a twin and may be a good resource for you. Baby B will definitely be in my prayers!

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  • yesthisiskim0401yesthisiskim0401 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. The same thing happened to me with my DD. Hugs. I'm here if you need to talk.

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  • shelliescove3shelliescove3 member
    So sorry to hear you are going through this:( Big hugs and t&p's for baby b
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    Aww your fam is in my prayers
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  • meganfauermeganfauer member

    Thank you ladies for your kind words or support. It is so nice to have.  

    ME- 35    DH- 40
    TTC #1 
    IVF#1 w ICSI- 4/20/11 ER, 6 Eggs, 4 Fertilized, 4/25/11 5 day ET, 2 blasts- 5/4- Beta= BFN- No Frosties 

    IVF #2 w ICSI-6/21/11 ER, 4 Eggs, 2 Fertilized, 6/24/11 3 day ET 2 embryos- Beta 7/5/11- BFN- No frosties.
    NEW RE
    IUI #1- started 50ius of follistim 1/25, IUI 2/3/12 - BFN
    AMH-0.73- DOR 2/2012

    IUI #2- 3/17/12 started 200ius of Follistim , 3/24/12 added ganirelix, 225ius Follistim and 75ius of repronex, IUI- 3/30/12, Beta April 13, 2012-BFN

    Appointment with Dr. Schoolcraft at CCRM July 18, 2012
    WAITING ON A MIRACLE AT THIS POINT
    AMH tested again 1/2013- 1.4!!!!
    IUI #3- 1/14/13 started 200ius of Follistim, 1/20/13 added menopur and ganirelix, IUI 1/25/13. Positive HPT 2/6/13- Beta #1- 193- BFP!!! 2/8/13-Beta#2-426.6
    2/26 ultrasound #1- TWINS!
    Delivered a healthy beautiful baby boy on 10/17/13 10ls. 2 ounces

    TTC #2 
    AMH .75 VERY POOR RESPONDER
    IUI #4 cancelled due to only one egg responding 
    IUI#5 cancelled on CD 10,  (3) follicules were still very small even on 300 IU's of Follistim. Also found fluid in my uterus from C-section scar
    BFP- 8/9/15 
    Beta #1 8/10/15 13DPO-   9.2 (fingers crossed this sticks)
    Beta #2 8/12/15 15DPO   39- progesterone 18 
    Beta #3 8/14/15    111- progesterone 17.5
    Ultrasound August 31- 


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  • AjoydAjoyd member

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Stay strong, Baby B! 



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  • rimjobrimjob member

    So sorry for your loss. 

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  • Aubs0009Aubs0009 member
    I am so sorry for the loss of baby A, fx that everything continues to be great with baby B.

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  • jmp2003jmp2003 member
    So sorry for your loss! Will definatley keep Baby B in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • allieb543allieb543 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Prayers for baby b and you 
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  • bkeane619bkeane619 member
    Sorry for your loss of Baby A.  I wish you all the best for Baby B.
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  • shelley1002shelley1002 member
    So sorry about baby A.  T&Ps on the way that baby B stays strong and measuring on track.

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  • asilwhiteasilwhite member
    I'm so sorry for your loss of baby A. You, your DH and baby B with be in my T&Ps. Grow baby B, grow! ((hugs))
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  • TiffJ21TiffJ21 member
    I am so sorry for the loss of Baby A. I will be thinking of you and hoping the best for Baby B. 
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  • mrsblueeyesmrsblueeyes member
    So sorry for you loss, thinking of you and hoping Baby B stays strong and healthy
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  • EmJ&BEmJ&B member
    Oh I am so sorry about Baby A. I'll be thinking of your fam and praying that baby B keeps going strong!
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  • loving929loving929 member
    I am so sorry! I hope baby B remains strong and continues to grow!
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  • Kay6519Kay6519 member
    So sorry for your loss! I hope everything goes well with the other little one!
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  • klewis888klewis888 member
    I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of baby A. Praying baby B will grow strong and healthy!
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  • deltagirl79deltagirl79 member
    I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope that all continues smoothly with Baby B. ((hugs))

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  • CousinVickiCousinVicki member
    So sorry to hear this, i just went through this exact scenario last week. Lots of conflicting emotions for sure.   I just saw my MFM for the first time today, and they said there is NO risk to the other fetus, and that this is unfortunately very, ver

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  • MsHenry30MsHenry30 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss :(  Prayers for baby B to keep growing strong and healthy. 
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  • SunnyMeg1SunnyMeg1 member
    I'm sorry for your loss
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    Soooo sorry for your loss! Thoughts and prayers!!
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