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Would this bother you?

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On the few times my mom has been over here to watch the girls, she keeps using our cloth prefolds as burp cloths. Even though I've shown her where the burp cloths are. I suppose they're all washed and clean, but it kind of grosses me out a little that the diapers she's pooping into are being thrown over someone's shoulder to catch spit up.
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  • Teresa1896Teresa1896 member
    Yes, that would bother me. Yuck!

    For the record, we used cloth prefolds as burp cloths, and we didn't CD. So did my parents back in the day. They're so absorbent!

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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    Haha, it would only bother me since you asked her not to and showed her where the real ones are.  I use his cloth wipes as wipes sometimes if he spits up and there isn't a burp cloth around...only clean ones of course! 
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  • morkmork member
    It would bother me because it's gross and, more importantly, you asked her not to do it. I think it's time to talk about it again and lay down the Mom law, which always trumps the grandma law.
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    Haha, it would only bother me since you asked her not to and showed her where the real ones are. ;
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  • hopefulmom81hopefulmom81 member

    I don't think it would bother me.

    There are going to be much larger battles to fight in the course of raising a baby and caregivers, so personally, I would let this one go.  

    I think it sounds grosser than it is.  I assume the pre

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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member

    It wouldn't bother me that she's useing prefold as burp cloths because they're clean. It's not like there's still poo on them or something. It's the same as putting one of your DD's in a clean shirt that previously had a blowout on it. It's clean. What

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  • ShaungelaShaungela member
    It would bother me because obviously shes not listening to you or taking what your saying seriously... that would bother me a lot because i would assume every other request/rule whatever you have for them she would do whatever she wanted.
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    Haha, it would only bother me since you asked her not to and showed her where the real ones are. 
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  • Auki13Auki13 member
    I CD and use cloth diapers as burp cloths, but I use separate ones for each.  I have the patterned ones for burp cloths...  I don't think it would necessarily gross me out using the diapers but it would bother me that you showed her and she is s
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    imagePetunia844:
    Haha, it would only bother me since you asked her not to and showed her where the real ones are.   

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member

    imageShaungela:
    ... i would assume every other request/rule whatever you have for them she would do whatever she wanted.
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