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We're out

thefarmchickthefarmchick member
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DH decided that the roller coaster ride is not for him and he does not want to adopt.

 I am devastated. 

I have always wanted to adopt since I was a small child. DH was open to the idea from the moment we met.  After doing all the research and getting right to the point of pulling the trigger and committing to an agency and country he decided that it is not something he wants to pursue.

I am mad, sad, and heart broken.  Just as you cannot get pregnant if your partner is not on board. Of course we cannot go through with anything.   He feels terrible and is also sad that he feels that way, but he knows its just not in his heart.  He wants to move on.

So here I am. Or rather, here I go, off this board and onto I don't know what.

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  • mtenderemtendere member
    I'm so very sorry. My DH is still not quite on board, so I'm not sure how this will end for us.

    I'd encourage you to have some counseling together to help you through this so that you can both feel good about the route forward.
    ***************************** Our beautiful daughter was born in October 2009. Turns out she was quite the miracle. After two years of TTC, diagnosed with DOR. A couple of failed treatment cycles later, we decided to let go of our hope for more biological children and explore adoption.
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  • Dr.LorettaDr.Loretta member
    I"m so sorry. HUGS
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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    I'm so sorry. Big, huge (((hugs)))
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  • irismorningirismorning member
    I am so sorry.

    Mother of two wonderful boys! Blessed through adoption.

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  • Stacy092306Stacy092306 member
    I'm so sorry.
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    TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!
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