Two Under 2

Feeling guilty

I'm a new Mom with 2u2, DS will be one in a couple weeks and DD is 9 days old. Ok, so right now I have 2u1 technically. I keep feeling so guilty for not being able to give DS 100 percent of my attention like he is accustomed to. I think a lot has to do with the fact that I had a c section and can not pick him up and hold him yet. Any tips to make this transition from 1 to 2 smooth?
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Re: Feeling guilty

  • My biggest advice is to not be so hard on yourself. Your DS really doesn't know too much of what is going on. When my DS was born, my DD was 13.5 months. She sorta knew something was going on, but in actuality I was way more worried about her than I sh

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  • No advice for you, but I am feeling the exact same way.  I miss how things were with DD before and feel like DH gets to have all the fun with her now since I also had a c section and can't lift her.  I am enjoying BFing and all the snuggle ti

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