Anyone else feeling unattractive?

AlexKate45 · March 2013

I just feel like a blob lately. It's not really a weight thing because I haven't gained that much... just a small bump and boobs. But I really hate the idea of DH seeing me naked right now.

I'm going out with (childless) friends tonight and I feel like a frump when I'm with them. Everyone says I look "cute" pregnant. But I find it hard to feel sexy/attractive when pregnant. Anyone else?

kmichln · March 2013

I definitely know what you mean. I'm finally showing a decent bump and the boobs have already gone up a size. I'm freaking out. lol I definitely feel a little less attractive right now. And we haven't really been intimate lately partially because of this.

JGM281207 · March 2013

Yep..and I would say especially naked. If I wear a really nice outfit that I'm happy with I usually feel pretty good. But just wearing my tank top and yoga pants like I normally do I feel pretty blah instead of cute like I used to.

kajordan09 · March 2013

Oh I certainly do. Between weight gain, feeling yucky, and frumpy maternity clothes, it's like a given! DH is sweet and always tells me how beautiful I look with a bump but all I can think about is how gross I feel sometimes and my growing butt and thighs

V&G101808 · March 2013

I feel cute when I dress up, do my hair, and put on the right clothes (work most days) but I feel like a blob when I get home and toss on whatever fits.

I definitely feel self concious when naked but hubs has been wonderful and continues to tel

kje120 · March 2013

I definitely feel blah lately. I'm not showing enough that I look cute - I just look thick.

tralfamadorian · March 2013

yea.. definitely not feeling it. i feel gross in clothes and really don't like the way anything looks at all. i actually feel best naked and better about intimacy now... i think it is because pre-pregnancy i had zero curves and was less than an a cup!

magdalina.h · March 2013

I feel the most attractive when I'm pg.

SarahKate31 · March 2013

magdalina.h:
I feel the most attractive when I'm pg.

I do too, and I think it's because I'm over

Cosmic+Love · March 2013

tralfamadorian:

yea.. definitely not feeling it. i feel gross in clothes and really don't like the way anything loo

davisislands · March 2013

I feel like I went through that phase a few weeks ago. But I hated the feeling so I did some things for myself and snapped right out of it. I got a pedicure, spray tan, colored my hair and got some really cute maxi dresses and accessories. I also

kateisgreat · March 2013

Having a bump doesn't really bother me, but my skin looks horrible, and I have the worst hair cut of my life right now

No matter what I do it looks like crap. Oh, and DH said to me the other day as I was getting dresses "wow, you really are pregnant" b

Ems2684 · March 2013

kateisgreat:
Having a bump doesn't really bother me, but my skin looks horrible, and I have the worst hair cut of my life righ

mommabmb · March 2013

davisislands:
I feel like I went through that phase a few weeks ago. But I hated the feeling so I did some things for myself andnbs

jennlily · March 2013

I am still feeling pretty bloated in the evenings and that makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and unattractive. I keep hoping things get better in the next couple of weeks.

I agree with the pampering, a mani/pedi always makes me fe

marinlove0528 · March 2013

I was 5'7 110 lbs when I got pregnant. Now I'm not sure what I am but I know that I've gone up two cup sizes and I have a roll under my boobs when I put my knees to my chest. And I have love handles now! I have felt so BLECH. Didn't help that I was lettin

Cheryl Renee · March 2013

Oh yes! I definitely feel unattractive! I've only gained 5 lbs and I have a small bump. My boobs have gone up a size so intimacy isn't an issue. He loves the big boobs! lol But I have awful acne on my face and neck and greasy hair and sk

MissyCee · March 2013

I've been struggling with this also. I've gained probably around 8 lbs or so, but it only shows in my boobs and bump. Still, I'm not used to having a stomach that isn't flat (not that I had a six pack, but I had a flat stomach pre-pregnancy) and it mak

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