Toddlers: 24 Months+

Dessert/Treats for older toddlers - how often?

How often do you allow your child to have treats?  By treats, I mean - gummy snacks, cookies, candy, ice cream, pudding, chips etc.

We used to allow her something once a week.  But, now that she's three, she remembers to ask every day after dinner.  I usually let her have 2 Hershey's kisses or 12 M&Ms or 1 pack of fruit snacks.  But, we've gone from once a week to once a day over the last couple of months.  I'm trying to figure out if I should scale it back or if this is normal.

My mother completely banned all treats until I was 5 and I think it may have backfired because I have a major sweettooth.  I'm trying to find a balance - so that she develops healthy relationships with food. 

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Re: Dessert/Treats for older toddlers - how often?

  • Maybe a few times a month on average? Not very often, but that's largely because we don't really keep them in the house/eat them ourselves. He could go weeks without a sugary dessert/snack, and then I'll make a pie or something (like I did last week) and
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  • I give a treat maybe 2-3 times a week, depending on the week. Sometimes we'll be out and someone will give him a sucker or he'll see me sneaking a cookie and ask for one. Sometimes he'll go a couple weeks without anything from me.

    However, my ILs

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  • On the order you're talking, a couple days a week.  We eat pretty healthy otherwise, and I keep the sweets relatively healthy and in small portions.  I don't really want to get into the "this food is good for you and this food is bad for you"

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  • We only do a few times a month.  My son doesn't ask so I save for special occasions or if he eats really well.  Most of the time he doesn't eat much for dinner so I'm not going to give him dessert if he didn't eat.  We do usually go out and
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  • I eat waaay too much junk, but I don't give it to my kid. :)  He gets a sweet treat maybe once every few weeks.  We give other kind of junky things to him though more often, like chips or those crackers with cheese in the middle.  He lik

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  • Gosh!  I keep all sorts of food in the house.  I eat mostly healthy food.  I do allow my little guy to have a cookie or a piece of candy every day.  He is a skinny little thing.  Super active.  If he asks for it and he is bei
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  • Usually once/week. We have dinner at my parents' house and that always includes dessert, so he gets a bit of that. He also gets a bunny graham cookie after going potty.

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    (Always the same time of day, never dependent on "finish your dinner", which would reward and encourage overeati

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  • She has dessert on the weekends only. 

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  • We just started doing treats with DD after her brother was born.  So basically once a week DD and I go to a coffee shop and she gets to pick out any treat she likes.  It's a way for us to spend a little time together, just the two of us.  P
  • DS gets a cookie or M&M when he pees or poops in the potty and we have ice cream after dinner a few times a week.
  • DD asks for dessert frequently, but I've led her to believe fruit dipped in yogurt is dessert, or a plain cake cone without anything in it is ice cream. They hardly ever get candy, and if they do it's from school, the doctor, or someone else. I stopped bu
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    Gosh!  I keep all sorts of food in the house.  I eat mostly healthy food.  I do allow my little guy to ha
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  • DS is almost 3 and he gets something almost every day.  It's something small though, like a chocolate covered cherry or three pez candies.  After Halloween, he got to pick one piece of candy each day to eat.  He's happy that he got a treat

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  • Lately it's a little more than usual since we are pting and her prize is either one or two M&Ms when she goes at home, she gets stickers at DC and nothing if we are out and about. 

    But she's fully trained now, so I'm phasing that out b

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  • Right now because I have a ridiculously picky eater she gets dessert (usually pudding) if she tries everything on her plate. Honestly, this happens maybe 1-2 times a week if we are lucky so she doesn't get it that often. Since I cannot physically make

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  • Whenever he asks, and he has met whatever he has to, to be allowed a snack (like all his chicken or carrots). Some weeks it's every day. Some weeks he doesn't ask at all. I guess we average 3-4 days a week.
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  • Probably daily lately. If we have anything remotely "snacky" in the house she begs for it several times per day. She does eat very well at meals, though.

    We don't keep a lot of treats at home, but for instance on Sunday she had some Easter candy

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  • I would say 4 days a week. My kids also got WAY more into asking for 'treats' after age 3 & closer to 3 1/2. They're much more aware of what treats & sweets are, can see into the pantry, etc better and just get the whole thing more.  I don

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