Can anyone relate? True OADers...

SheLovesMrHip · March 2013

So for the true OAD gals....can you relate to this?

As stated in my intro we are OAD for medical reasons.

I do not get baby fever, but rather baby jealousy. Does that sound crazy? I have one friend who is actually in labor right now and she is the only one I do not feel this way about. I actually cry when I think about how happy I am for her. But others, I am like "eff them!" its isnt fair, I cant have another and you are popping out mulitples and are healthy.

Boo, sorry to vent, PMSing is a biitch right now.

Fianschneid · March 2013

My two closest friends are TTC right now and I thought I would get the fever. It isn't happening BUT, I have the insane fever to hold a little baby now that DD is getting so big.

This weekend, I told DH, "Some other people need to start ge

luckymrs718 · March 2013

Girl! I know EXACTLY what you're talking about! That's how I feel about my sister who can get knocked up at the drop of the hat and just pop out babies like it is nothing. It's irritating. Even though we are 100% content with being

Chapter79 · March 2013

I can't really relate. But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons- I'm done for a whole slew of different reasons, one of them being I'm not fond of the baby stage. So I have ZERO baby fever, jealously, etc. In fact, I feel the opposite.. I ki

missymo · March 2013

Chapter79:
I can't really relate. nbsp;But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons I'm done for a whole slew of different reasons

LittleLMom · March 2013

We are one and done for finacial reasons, not medical, but no I have no baby fever at all. I'm enjoying seeing my little one grow up. I like being able to do new things with her. This age is so much more fun for me than the baby stage.

LittleLMom · March 2013

missymo:
Chapter79:

MamatoA2010 · March 2013

Chapter79:
I can't really relate. But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons- I'm done for a whole slew of different

meganab3 · March 2013

I definitely get jealous of pregnant women/people having a "normal" delivery. In fact the only reason I imagine having another is I'd like to experience making it full term and having the baby with me in the room and happy visitors and all of that... It's

SheLovesMrHip · March 2013

luckymrs718:
Girl! I know EXACTLY what you're talking about! That's how I feel about my sister who can get knocked

EastCoastBride · March 2013

luckymrs718:
Girl! I know EXACTLY what you're talking about! That's how I feel about my sister who can get knocked

Bateaulover · March 2013

missymo:
Chapter79:

sugarbear0524 · March 2013

I get a little sad sometimes when I think about not having another child. I lost a baby at 12 weeks before I had my son, so I think about that baby. I think I will always feel like my little family is incomplete because my son almost had an older brother/

kristennd · March 2013

I'm in the "we don't miss having a baby one bit" camp.

mishele · March 2013

I can relate. I definitely do not have baby fever. My friend just had her third and we went to the hospital to see the new baby. It was so strange to hold a tiny baby again and for a very brief moment, I felt a twinge.

robynlesley · March 2013

SheLovesMrHip:
So for the true OAD gals....can you relate to this?

What do you me

urbanflowerpot · March 2013

Yes, I can. We aren't OAD for medical reasons (just choice) but my son was born 10 weeks early so there was a gigantic medical situation.

I have a hard time being around pg women, period. I am jealous of their bellies, their aches, pains. I will

urbanflowerpot · March 2013

robynlesley:
SheLovesM

cedenton · March 2013

Chapter79:
I can't really relate. But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons- I'm done for a whole slew of different

luckymrs718 · March 2013

robynlesley:
SheLovesM

SheLovesMrHip · March 2013

luckymrs718:
robynlesl

robynlesley · March 2013

Gotcha! And I think I understand what you mean about the void.

I am glad this board is here and that I've met other women?of various ages and situations?who, like me, aren't on the fence and are done with one.

littlelamb99 · March 2013

Chapter79:
I can't really relate. But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons- I'm done for a whole slew of different

salt78 · March 2013

Chapter79:
I can't really relate. But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons- I'm done for a whole slew of different

Izabella22 · March 2013

Its funny you posted that, a few weeks ago I thought i had baby fever and was thinking "dear god, how could I want to do this again" but I think its jealousy really. Pregnancy was not easy for me physically, and after two losses, one of which was very tra

Chapter79 · March 2013

salt78:

OMG all this. I have a lot of friends from my BMB and I love those girls to death, but so many of them talk about

mandelbread · March 2013

Chapter79:
I can't really relate. But I'm not done strictly for medical reasons- I'm done for a whole slew of different

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