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DH & LO

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Lately, it seems that when my LO is fussy, DH has a hard time settling her down. But, I'll grab her from him and she'll calm down in a matter of seconds/a minute. When we first brought her home from the Hospital and even at the Hospital, she was really in tune to DH and he could calm her down almost always.

It's really getting to DH.  

Did this happen to any of you? Any suggestions? Is it because I'm home with her during the day so she "knows" me more? {I know that sounds silly...}

 

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  • sschwegesschwege member
    DS does this too.  Every time I leave DH says how fussy he was, but he's not like that when I'm there.  
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  • this decaf lifethis decaf life member
    DD is really fussy with DH. I just let him try to figure it out because he doesn't need [and probably doesn't want] me to swoop in and rescue her every time. He'll figure it out IMO. DD definitely knows me better than she knows DH but the only way they'll
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  • this decaf lifethis decaf life member

    imagesschwege:
    Every time I leave DH says how fussy he was, but he's not like that when I'm there.  

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  • ungraceful13ungraceful13 member

    imagethis decaf life:
    DD is really fussy with DH. I just let him try to figure it out because he doesn't need [and probably does
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  • reyorrareyorra member
    It has definitely happened to us. My husband even broke down crying one time when she did this to him. I definitely think that she is more familiar with me so I can calm her faster. I also think that some of his movements with her were too abrupt and star
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  • Of The EldOf The Eld member
    The same thing is happening with our DS. We've come to the conclusion that he can sense some of the tension DH is putting out these days because hes worried about holding him right, not overstimulating him, etc. it will pass as they get more comfortable w
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  • ChelscoleChelscole
    My dd was the same way she actually liked DH more than me. Then we started moving and we were apart for a month and she didn't do great with him but she straightened out really quick and is back to liking him more lol
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