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He Slept in His Room Last Night!

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I know I have become  bit of a stranger round these parts the last several weeks, but I am back at work now so hopefully I will have a little more time to bump.

So, my AW is that Harry slept in his own room last night! He is 11 weeks and I think it is the perfect time to move him. He did really well and I highly recommend a video monitor to anyone thinking about it. I went and got one yesterday after several failed attempts to move him - it is amazing and makes me feel much better (his room is on the opposite side of the house).

Now, the ugly Sad If all continues to go well I will pack his cradle up the week. It makes me really, really sad b/c I don't know if we can go through that all again to have any more children at this point, so anything of his I have to pack away just makes me horribly depressed. I can't bring myself to give anything away yet, so I will hoard his baby stuff.

Anyone else struggle with this? I cried like a baby when I packed away his newborn clothes and diapers.

Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
#1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
#1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
#1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
#2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • delinodelino member
    I know I don't belong here yet, but I just had to give you a :::hug:::

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  • FreyaWin2382FreyaWin2382 member

    First of all Delino, you are always welcome here :)

    4legs: Yea for LO sleeping in his room! We are going to start (correction: going to try to start...) that this week and have been going back and forth on the

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  • 4legsRbest4legsRbest member
    Love you ladies!

    D, you are always welcome and it is sad to think that way so unfair... But I know you will love little miss every second of every day and never take her for granted!

    Freya It took 5 attempts and a whole lotta
    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • morkmork member
    Hugs. And yay for sleeping in his own room! I couldn't bring myself to move her until 5 months. It's been a week and I miss her, even though she's just in the next room.

    Hi D! You're always welcome here!
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  • jobiannjobiann member
    It's exciting that they are growing up but also sad. However I feel like my excitement outweighs my sadness! HUGS!

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    Hi 4legs!

    I feel like I was way more emotional packing up DD1's things, even though my pg w her was completely uncomplicated and I just "assumed" I'd have another. Then we lost our son, and I went through massive struggles to have our rainbow
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