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Why do people try to make me feel bad? (Birth of Nephew mentioned)

Because really, I already feel bad enough - I don't need any damn help in that department!  My SIL had my nephew last Thursday.  They had to induce her a few weeks early bc she developed preeclampsia.  I wasn't mentally prepared yet for this, so was caught a little off guard.  Well, my mother decided to text me several time Saturday about the baby.  I sent her a text message back asking her to stop because I was having a bad day.  Well, today my dad emails me because I am being "too sensitive" and he knows it sucks, but I need to find a way to deal with my emotions that doesn't affect anyone else.  Well, I just sent the text message to my mom - not to my SIL or brother.  I sent them text messages back on Thursday saying "thinking about you and rooting for you from the east cost" (they live in seattle).  Well, my SIL had to be admitted yesterday again because she ended up developing eclampsia.  I am really sorry about this and really hope she continues to improve.  I am happy for her and my brother, but at the same time I am sad because of everything my DH and I are going through. 

Sorry, there isn't really a point to this post.  I just need to get it out.  Vent over...

TTC #1 Since 7/2011

Me: 30, PCOS with anovulation
DH: 38, Low Morph & DE
Rx: Metformin 500mg

Cycle #1: Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel = No Response, Canceled
Cycle #2: Clomid 150mg + Ovidrel = No Response, Canceled
Cycle #3: Clomid 150mg + Follistim + Ovidrel = No response, Canceled

Cycle #4: Femara 7.5mg + Gonal-f + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP!!!!

 

~ EDD 03.26.14 ~

Re: Why do people try to make me feel bad? (Birth of Nephew mentioned)

  • I'm so sorry. What do they expect you to do? What are they looking for from you?

    I don't see any problem with you telling them to stop with the texts and emails. You have extended congratulations to the parents. I'm failing to see what your



    Me: 32 DH: 31.
    B/W: good. SA: good.
    November 2012: Paratubal cyst found during U/S.
    January 10, 2013: Lap removed paratubal cyst and Stage 2 Endometriosis. 
    3 cycles of Femara + TI = BFNs

    June 2013: Femara 2.5 mg, Gonal F Injects 37.5 IU, Menopur, trigger + IUI = BFN

    July 2013: Femara 2.5 mg, Gonal F Injects 75 IU, Menopur, trigger + IUI = BFP!!!!

    Beta 1 @ 11 DPIUI = 76. Progesterone = 27.3

    BFP 8/16/2013 // EDD 4/28/2014

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    Thanks for the support ladies - I'm back in their good graces because I sent some flowers to my SIL (I wanted to because I am sure she is scared).  Doesn't change the fact that my parents don't get it - they went through infertility, but, as my aunt

    TTC #1 Since 7/2011

    Me: 30, PCOS with anovulation
    DH: 38, Low Morph & DE
    Rx: Metformin 500mg

    Cycle #1: Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel = No Response, Canceled
    Cycle #2: Clomid 150mg + Ovidrel = No Response, Canceled
    Cycle #3: Clomid 150mg + Follistim + Ovidrel = No response, Canceled

    Cycle #4: Femara 7.5mg + Gonal-f + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP!!!!

     

    ~ EDD 03.26.14 ~

  • I know what you mean. My sister is about to have the first baby in the family and she got Prego in less then 3 months while ive been trying for 3-4 yrs.

    Married August 27, 2011
    TTC Since September 2010
    Ultrasound found PCOS July 2012
    Started Clomid January 2013
    Last Clomid dose 150mg April
    No Ovulation on Clomid
    Ultrasound in a week then going to try letrozole
  • I'm sorry your parents bombarded you about the birth of your nephew. I bet if they'd let you be you'd find a way to express your happiness when you were good and ready. I'm not sure what it is with people and trying to force a reaction out of others.</

    TTC my #1 with PCOS since June 2010.
    Countless Clomid&Femara Cycles.
    Feb. 2014-April 2015=AF arrived on time. 
    EDD: January 14, 2016. Finally.image
    Expecting One Healthy Baby Girl!!!
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