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Advice on my names?

My DH and I have had our names picked out for years. We have always said Aidrian Taylor for a boy and LiliMae Lynn for a girl. Most of my family like the names. I have a couple who say the boy name seems more like a girls...but my MIL HATES them. In fact, she was completely against us having a baby, she is coming around, but still doesn't want us to buy anything for the baby. Anyway, ever since MIL stated her displeasure with the names, DH seems to be questioning them. What do you feel about the names? And should I try to change them to make MIL happy since that would make DH happy, or just look at it as its my baby, I pick the name?

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  • It's your baby, you get to pick the name, and MIL can shove it up her asss. I like the names, but prefer traditional spelling. 
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  • It's you and your husband's decision on naming baby. MIL has no say.

    I like Adrian spelling better. Although Adrian is a boy name, I only know girls with that name and boy and girl Taylors, so you might want to think about that.

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  • While I don't like your name choices, I feel strongly that the MIL's opinion should not be a game changer! If you guys love the names, go with them....
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    While I don't like your name choices, I feel strongly that the MIL's opinion should not be a game changer! If you guys
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    It's you and your husband's decision on naming baby. MIL has no say.

    I like Adrian spelling better. Although Adri


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  • I don't care for the spelling of Adrian, and LilliMae Lynn is just too much.
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  • Wait, your MIL didn't want you to have a baby just because she doesn't like your name choices? I personally would not be discussing ANYTHING baby related with someone that had that attitude.

    Like others have said, the names are NMS but its y
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    It's you and your husband's decision on naming baby. MIL has no say.I like Adrian spelling better. Although Adrian is a boy
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  • Your DH should be happy with the names, but your MIL's opinions don't matter. My mom doesn't like the name DH and I have picked out for a future daughter, but I don't care because I love it.

     

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    It's you and your husband's decision on naming baby. MIL has no say.I like Adrian spelling better. Although Adrian is a boy
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  • Adrian Taylor - great

    Lily Mae - lovely

    Simple is best IMO

    Your choice of course :) 

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  • It sounds like your MIL is just unhappy as a whole. She will just have to get used to the names you and your DH choose.

    As for the names themselves...I love Adrian on a boy. It sounds masculine to me. However, I don't like the way you have it s

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  • I don't like the spelling of Aidrian, but Adrian is nice.  LiliMae Lynn is NMS.  I like Lily, but it's the smoosh with Mae that loses me.

    Regardless of what anyone thinks about your names, it's your kid, your choice.

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  • I loooove LiliMae Lynn!!!!! And my mother is very anti 99% of the names I like and can't stand my babies father so I understand where you are. Just do what y'all feel is right and let the rest lay. she'll either come around or she wont. Sorry she's like t
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  • I can understand their disdain for the names, if you told them that you were misspelling them.

    That being said, it's none of her business.

    But really, rethink those spellings.  I mean, why purposefully misspell names like that?

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    My feeling is that your MIL had her opportunity to pick out names when she had her own children.  You should absolutely not change them to please her.  
  • It's your decision, not your MIL's. I suggest not discussing it with her anymore.

    Adrian Taylor is fine but could be confusing as both names are unisex. Picking one and pairing it with a masculine name would ease the confusion.
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