Baby Showers

self-appointed invitation

My brother's crazy ex-girlfriend's equally nutty mother called my mom to ask about my shower and registry because she was planning to attend.  Um... no.  She didn't get an invitation for a reason.  I have met this woman twice briefly.  She couldn't be bothered giving her own daughter a gift that I really don't need to have her at mine. 

When my mom said "this is a shower for Lily and Lily's friends," she said "oh I thought it was for family."  She isn't MY family and she refers to me by the wrong name.

And... my brother and his ex-girlfriend are in an ugly custody dispute.  I have never been close to his ex-girlfriend either. 

Weirdo. 

together since 2006
full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
married since 2011

TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
Bloodwork: normal
2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
New RE appt 8/14/12
IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
Beta #1 BFP! 97
Beta #2 234
Beta #3 4937
ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
10/20/12 graduated!!!
EDD 6/7/12
Team PINK!!

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Re: self-appointed invitation

  • how is a ex-gf or an ex-gf's mom family?

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  • imagecinderin:
    how is a ex-gf or an ex-gf's mom family?

    Exactly my thoughts!  My brother always seems to find the cuckoos who want us all to "family." 

    together since 2006
    full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
    married since 2011

    TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
    HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
    S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
    Bloodwork: normal
    2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
    Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
    New RE appt 8/14/12
    IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
    Beta #1 BFP! 97
    Beta #2 234
    Beta #3 4937
    ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
    10/20/12 graduated!!!
    EDD 6/7/12
    Team PINK!!

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  • What a weirdo!  Glad your mom stood her ground!
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  • So strange.  I dislike when people try to make uncomfortable situations.  She probably clearly knew that what she was doing was werid and did it on purpose.
  • Don't you love how showers and lifetime events can bring out the crazy in people?
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  • yikes! glad your mom was clear about it.
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    Good for your mom!
    Daniel ~ October 21, 2013
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