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WW3TD?

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So, I had planned to go visit my roommate from college next weekend and meet up with some of our old college friends for dinner one night. It was difficult to figure out when to go with trying to get our first IUI done. Well, after not being able to do it this cycle since I ovulated too early, it looks like my CD3 monitoring could possibly get in the way of me being able to go. I'm supposed to leave on Thursday afternoon, so as long as my period comes before Wednesday (my RE doesn't mind doing the ultrasounds on CD2 if needed) I should still be able to go, but if it's later I'll have to cancel last minute. 

I'm wondering what 3T would do....would you just cross your fingers or would you cancel just in case? The other thing is 3 of the four girls we're meeting up with have babies and one is already pregnant again. So, if I had to cancel I'm not sure what I would say. I tried to let my best friend know it was a possibility this morning and even though she knows about our infertility and I explained the situation to her, I can tell she's not happy.  I always read on here that we shouldn't skip events or vacations for treatments, and typically I agree, but I really think I would regret it. And I'm sure my DH won't want me to skip the ultrasound. Soo...what do I do??

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  • PurplePanda2PurplePanda2 member

    Since you missed last month, I would be more willing to stick around for this month's monitoring.  My RE will do CD2-4 so hopefully you will still be able to make one of those days.

     

    I think it is good that you told your friend

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  • Aurora1181Aurora1181 member
    I'd just play it by ear since you never know when your CD1 could be. Is it a long drive to meet your friends? Would you be spending the whole weekend out of town? If so, I might stay in town so that I don't miss the appt.
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    4 IUIs with Clomid, Letrozole, and Menopur. All BFN.
    9/12: lap / hysteroscopy: found and removed mild endometriosis, cervical polyp, and 2 para-tubular cysts
    5/13 IVF #1: Follistim, Menopur, Ganirelix, 10R/4M/4F, ET of 2, 5 cell and 4 cell, no frosties = BFN
    12/13 IVF #2 = November / December 2013. Microdose Lupron Protocol: 15R/6M/6F, Froze all 6 due to high E2 and P4
    FET 1: Jan 22, 2014 of one 4AB blast and one 3BB blast (3 blasts on ice!)
    BFP on HPT 4dp5dt, Beta #1 9dp5dt: 310, Beta #2 11dp5dt: 899
    First u/s on 2/17/14: TWINS!!!!! both w/HBs of 114 at 6w3d, HBs 150 and 152 at 7w5d
    5/27/2014: Team purple!!!!  EDD 10/10/2014 / 
    Delivered by c-section at 32w0d 8/15/2014 due to preeclampsia/HELLP syndrome
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  • ky29ky29 member
    I agree with sticking around.  And maybe you would be able to just miss out on a night and go up after your appt?  I would probably be easier for you if your friend didn't seem disappointed... hopefully they understand!

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    DX: MFI (4% motility)
    Cycle 13: Natural cycle w/ HSG test = BFP
    Identical twins! 
    Lost my angel boys at 10.5 weeks
    Cycle 14-16: Natural Cycles = BFN
    Cycle 17: Follistim + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    Cycle 18: Natural Cycle = BFN
    Cycle 19: Follistim + Trigger +IUI#2
    Polyp found: SIS 11/11 - hysteroscopy 11/14
    Cycle 20: Follistim + IUI#2 = BFFN
    Cycle 21: Follistim (adj. dosage) + IUI#3 TI  = BFN
    IUI cancelled due to weather
    Cycle 22: Follistim + IUI#3.1 = BFN
    Cycle 23: treatment break, IVF consult
    Cycle 24 - 26: natural cycle w/ acupuncture + Chinese herbs = BFN
    Cycle 27: Follistim + IUI#4 = BFFN
    Natural Cycles until IVF
    Cycle 30: IVF#1 - Starting with Menopur + Follistim + Ganirelix
    17 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 5dt w/ 2 blasts, 5 frosties
    Betas:  #1-156(9dp5dt), #2-1200(13dp5) #3-6112(17dp5)
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  • vanillajenvanillajen member

    imageAurora1181:
    I'd just play it by ear since you never know when your CD1 could be. Is it a long drive to meet your friends? Woul
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  • AustinAg03AustinAg03 member
    I have to agree with everyone. I would stick around. I skipped an IUI for a trip and, honestly, I regret that decision. I hope your friend comes around and is a bit more supportive!
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    Me 32, DH 32
    Dx: Unexplained IF
    RE consult October 2012 
    Clomid and IUI Nov 2012-March 2013 BFNs
    IVF#1 on CD10! April 2013 - ER (27 retrieved, 19 fertilized) 4/21 - ET cancelled due to OHSS. 10 frosties 
    FET#1 w/ one blast May 2013-BFN
    FET #2 w/ one blast July 2013-BFP!!! Beta 9dp5dt: 129 Beta 13dp5dt: 867 Beta 20dp5dt: 13621 Beta 27dp5dt: 53341 U/S #1: 7/31 heartbeat 127 measuring right on time EDD March 20th, 2014
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  • vanillajenvanillajen member

    imagekatyj25:
    I would stick around and come hang out with me instead. <img src="https://community.thebump.com/cs/emoticons/emotion-2
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