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Vent. SIL and Facebook

Tara*N*ChrisTara*N*Chris member
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I am so sick of my SIL announcing my business on Facebook, it is ridiculous. I know she is excited about being an aunt again, but that does not mean she gets to announce all my big news before I do.  It is not my fault she will probably never have kids, this is my life not yours.

sorry but today was the last straw and I needed to vent and DH is not home yet.  I am telling him he has to talk to her, or we will not be sharing any more information with her. 

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  • my4blessingsmy4blessings
    I agree she should at least ask first.  Get her in check girl!!!!
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  • britb618britb618 member
    What did she share? and yea I'd be pissed too, we haven't shared the babys gender yet with the world (we are doing a gender reveal shower) so only really close family know we are having a girl, and apparently unbeknownst to me, my brother in law put in on
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  • Tara*N*ChrisTara*N*Chris member
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    Okay, so I agree that she shouldn't be posting your news on Facebook for you and I think that having your husband tal

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  • caelorum84caelorum84 member
    Whoa! You are completely justified in your rant. She revealed the gender on FB before you? I would not be pleased. Definitely have your DH speak to her about this, it's one thing to be excited for you but entirely unacceptable to take away your right to d
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  • sparkymcgeeesparkymcgeee member
    Yeah I wouldn't be sharing anymore information with her. Not until after you tell everyone else and or post yourself. I would also politely tell her this time to please keep her labor updates to herself. No one needs to know the status of your cervix. Eve


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  • purplepeanut6purplepeanut6 member

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    Yeah I wouldn't be sharing anymore information with her. Not until after you tell everyone else and or post yourself.<
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  • Stina2012Stina2012 member
    I'd stop sharing information and have DH tell this this upset you. No need to keep sharing and keep getting upset.
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  • jackson290721jackson290721 member
    I can completely relate. We have had to keep so many things secret through out pregnancy from my MIL. We know the gender but want to keep it a secret, my parents know but that is it. The MIL would tell, SIL, BIL, etc. She means well, and would just be exc
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  • LilyLove29LilyLove29 member
    Awww I'm sorry! My mom does the same thing so I know how you feel... Just stop telling her anything until you're ready for it to go on Facebook. That's what we had to finally do with my mom.
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  • PrimRoseMamaPrimRoseMama member

    I understand that it must be frustrating to have her announcing news that is not hers to share. That being said, you sound kind of douchey with the remark about "its not your fault she is never going to have kids". That is seriously harsh and kind of m


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    I understand that it must be frustrating to have her announcing news that is not hers to sha

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  • jheil80jheil80

    I went through something like this when I first got pregnant. It was friends and not family though. They found me on here because they were curious if I was. Well we told them officially on christmas we were telling everyone else on new years but every

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