With your 2nd, 3rd whatever number, : did you drop closer to labor starting than with your first? I had a chiro appointment last night and he said my hips were all out of wack and that it wasn't allowing baby to settle in and engage. I've been at a 3 for 3 weeks.. This morning there has been tons of pressure and hopefully things will be moving along soon.
Re: STM Lightening/Dropping
i was a 4 for weeks before my first. i would not consider that a sign of labor at all!
it's great you are doing chiro! at only 38.5, you could have several more healthy weeks of pregnancy left, or you could go into labor tomorrow. planning a vbac, the most important thing to do is be patient, schedule an activity each day so you have something to look forward to. try to do a few healing things each week (chiro, acupuncture, massage) and spend some time every day relaxing and visualizing a healthy birthing day!
good luck! my vbac was everything i hoped it would be and i did the things i suggested above.
I heard this too. Dd did not engage fully until my water was broken. With both kids, I dilated early and didn't go into labor either time until my water broke. So dropping/dilation is not a sign for me that labor is eminent. But you never know!! GL mama. Hope you have a great birth experience- good to know you're already 1/3 of the way there