Hey all. My apologies if this question has been asked a million times.. We're flying in May for the first time since DD was born. She'll be 2.5 at that time. What are your experiences with bringing a car seat aboard the plane? Think it's necessary? I've looked at the airline's policy and due to her age/size, it doesn't look like it's required. Thanks!
Re: flying with toddler
Are you going to need a seat for transportation when you arrive at your destination? That would be the first question.
We flew with ours recently and it was great. He slept in the seat, there was plenty of room for DH and I, you install the seat in the window seat. We considered renting a seat with our rental car. I am so happy we didn't. The rental car was filthy and I can only imagine what a car seat would have looked like.
The first few times we used our large convertible, not a fun experience. The second time I bought a Costco convertible from Walmart, super easy. We had to use it forward facing in the plane for it to fit, even though he faces rear in cars. I paid about 10 dollars for a special strap that secured the car seat to my carry on bag and DS could actually sit in the car seat as I wheeled it through the airport.
Personally I think DS was much happier traveling in his car seat, it's familiar, comfortable, kept him confined and he napped.
My son is so wiggly and active that if he weren't strapped into the car seat he wouldn't get the message that he's supposed to sit down. Having a car seat is, therefore, a necessity for us.
We bought a Cosco seat from Walmart and love it. I travel with him mostly alone and just flip the car seat upside down to rest it on top of our Maclaren stroller handles.
We don't bring it unless I know she'll sleep the whole time like after our 14 hour intl flight. Won't ever do it again while she's awake cause it puts her at the perfect distance to kick the seat on front of her, ALL bad!!! We bring our cares harness instead :
If it was needed at the destination, I'd bring it on board. If not, I'd leave it behind. Especially when on longer flights you tend to bring more so I'd hate to have more to lug around. However, I'd consider boxing it up in protective styrofoam or something of the sort before I'd consider gate checking. I've seen what they do to that stuff.
We flew home with LO from Russia. 36 hours of travel with 21 of those being on planes. Traveling with toddlers isn't fun.