CageyMack
37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.
5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered. All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd. 4 fertilized. Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853. Yay!
"Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing
Re: Once you hit due date, keep working or go home?
If you are up to working, I say keep working. With my first I had the week or two before off and went bananas! All I could do is sit around and wait! This time I will work until the 16th with a c-section scheduled for the 18th.
Working will at least keep you occupied.
BFP #1 9/1/11, EDD 5/15/12, Missed M/C at 9w4d, discovered at 11w3d, D&C 11/2/11
BFP #2 6/20/12, Baby Boy born 3/2/13
BFP #3 October 2016, EDD 6/11/17
I stayed working past my due date, though when I hit my due date I started WAH. I delivered 3 days past my date.
This time I'll be working up until labor. I'm at a newer job, and don't have the opportunity to WAH but also don't want to waste my PTO before the baby gets here.
This exactly. Appropriate outfits and all - kinda sucks when your maternity wear is too small! I had planned on the 20th being my last day (due date), but I'm now being induced on the 18th. Next Friday is it for me.
So I really think it depends on how much time you get off and how you want to spend your time. This time around I'm working as long as I can.
I never made it to my due date, but I would not have been allowed to work past my due date.
If your work allows you and you feel up to it, keep working and save your maternity leave.
This. I unfortunately couldn't make it, my last day was Thursday at 39w 2d. I think i was just exhausted bc i was working extra hours to get studf wrapped up, and then working on baby preparation at night.
However, I have a flexible job and can work at home. I told them that if baby is late I may come back after a few days rest, while we wait for an induction. Bc I really don't want to eat up 1 to 2 weeks leave just twiddling my thumbs.