This might sound crazy, but is anyone getting dolled up for the hospital? I am overdue and have to be induced so know I have to go in on Thurs morning. I was going to get a manicure/pedicure the day before as I know I won't have time for a few weeks. I was also thinking about doing my hair and makeup for pics/video on the way to the hospital. I keep thinking that labor will be several hours and know I probably won't look good after a few hours. Just thought maybe I could get in some decent pics for the scrap book. Thoughts?
Re: Getting dolled up for hospital?
I am bringing my make-up bag with some nice neutrals and my Urban Decay make-up setting spary. That stuff will hold your make-up like you would not believe. 12 hours and it will still look good. I want to be able to look back and not be horrified by how bad I look. Done the pedi/mani. You're not crazy at all.
I plan on getting a mani/pedi once a week until I give birth. I always feel a little better when my nails look good, and I figure I won't have the time to go pamper myself for a while after LO is born.
And my makeup bag is definitely coming with me to the hospital. I want to at least be able to look good after I get cleaned up and all that.
Last time around I attempted a natural home birth and was in labor for about 26 hours at home before having to transfer to the hospital. Once I got there I had the option of an epi or a csection so I obviously took the epi. I ended up putting on makeup at 10 centimeters (right before pushing) because I had time and wasn't in pain. It was nice once the baby was out and pictures were being taken. If I hadn't put on makeup it wouldn't have been the end of the world and if I had put it on before labor there is no way it would have looked good at the end since labor went for so long.
My thoughts are that if you know when you're going in and it will make you feel better than go for it.
Knowing that usually, FTM like me labor for a few hours, I do plan on taking some makeup with me, perhaps maybe even a flat or curling iron. These are things that calm me down, and make me feel like I am in control of something.
As far as grooming, I never stopped taking care of that, and I will definitely get my hair dyed this weekend or the next, but mostly because I know I won't have time for that after baby is here. I also probably will not give a rat's nest.
I do plan on taking showers and putting on PJs while at the hospital (after labor)! We'll see how that goes though!
Heh, sometimes I wish I wasn't a tomboy. The only thing I will be doing to get ready for the hospital is take a shower, throw on some baggy sweats and a thermal shirt and pull my hair back into a pony tail.
My cousin got dolled up for her 5 pregnancies and all 5 five of them, mascara lined her face. She laughs now at it, but each and every time someone wanted to take a picture she was like "WAIT" and got fixed up as best she can.
I haven't completely given up on grooming my legs and lady bits but I have slowed down. I hope to be able to shower when I go into labour so that I feel as fresh as possible before giving birth. I'm hoping to do some last minute grooming then.
As for makeup and hair...not a chance that I'll be going all out for the birth. I can just see myself being a sweaty mess. So I plan on going in fresh-faced with simple hair and, once LO is born, I hope to swipe on some mascara and pin my hair back a bit. Nothing major.
I think I'm going to go for a pedi in the next week just because I find them so darn relaxing more than anything. I'll probably do an at-home mani later this week and try to keep up on it every few days. I forgot that I wanted to do this so thanks for the reminder! (I haven't done my nails in a while and have been busy the last while...but pretty soon I'm going to have more time on my hands if I don't give birth soon...so I should take the time to pretty up my hands!)
BFP #1 09/02/11 M/C 09/12/11 8w6days
BFP #2 07/18/12 Baby S born on his EDD 03/23/13
SS - age 12...SD - age 8...DS - 13 mos.
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