DH is in denial :

Kellihastwo · March 2013

With our first he didn't believe two BFP at home so we went to the doc and peed on their stick, still didn't believe it until the blood text results said YES MAN SHE'S PREGNANT!

This time is the same. For some reason it doesn't feel real until we hear those numbers!
Waiting for them to call is torturous!

fiddlefern · March 2013

You aren't alone. My hubby "kind of" believes it, but doesn't think it is real until an u/s.

Samantha8604 · March 2013

My DH is the same way. I showed him the hpt and he?s like those lines don?t mean anything to me! Go get a test the actually says pregnant lol

JaysonandKristin · March 2013

I'm still in denial... forget DH.

3 positive HPTs, but no symptoms means that mom is operating under the assumption that she's KU'd but still not yet feeling KU'd. I'm hoping someone remembers this post in 36 weeks when I'm like beached whale big and sooooo ready for the end!!

femmepink · March 2013

It's the opposite in my house.

I'm in denial that this is happening, and I'm really trying to stay positive that everything will be okay. DH is the one who is convincing me that this is it, and to think positive.

Comeonlilbaby · March 2013

My DH told me that it doesn't feel real yet. And honestly, I don't either. I don't think either of us will until after the first doctor appt.

carastar29 · March 2013

My hubby is the exact same - doesn't even want to TALK about it til doctor confirms it. And I had the most frustrating experience this morning. I had booked my first doctor's appointment for this morning and was eagerly awaiting getting the blood work, etc done, especially since I have hardly any symptoms and this is my first pregnancy so I really don't know what to think. Anyway I arrived at the doctor's office only to be told that he had called in sick today, and now I have rescheduled for next week Wednesday! Such a long wait. DH is going to have to accept it sooner or later... am just praying that everything is okay and that my lack of nausea isn't a bad thing.

Svenny1011 · March 2013

DH and I sort of both don't believe it. Although, he's much more aware (if that is the right word!) that this could be real than the other times. My line was quite dark on the test, and now with my first beta back today, he's talking more like it is real. I'm having a hard time b/c I just expect the worst, based on history. I also don't really have symptoms, other than bloating, so I just don't "feel" pregnant.

MandyPandyBear · March 2013

carastar29:
My hubby is the exact same - doesn't even want to TALK about it til doctor confirms it. And I had the most frustrating experience this morning. I had booked my first doctor's appointment for this morning and was eagerly awaiting getting the blood work, etc done, especially since I have hardly any symptoms and this is my first pregnancy so I really don't know what to think. Anyway I arrived at the doctor's office only to be told that he had called in sick today, and now I have rescheduled for next week Wednesday! Such a long wait. DH is going to have to accept it sooner or later... am just praying that everything is okay and that my lack of nausea isn't a bad thing.

i wouldn't worry. I hardly had any nausea my last pregnancy and only actually thew up once.

JaysonandKristin · March 2013

MandyPandyBear:
carastar29:
My hubby is the exact same - doesn't even want to TALK about it til doctor confirms it. And I had the most frustrating experience this morning. I had booked my first doctor's appointment for this morning and was eagerly awaiting getting the blood work, etc done, especially since I have hardly any symptoms and this is my first pregnancy so I really don't know what to think. Anyway I arrived at the doctor's office only to be told that he had called in sick today, and now I have rescheduled for next week Wednesday! Such a long wait. DH is going to have to accept it sooner or later... am just praying that everything is okay and that my lack of nausea isn't a bad thing.

i wouldn't worry. I hardly had any nausea my last pregnancy and only actually thew up once.

Yep!! DS1 made me sicker than a dog -- everyday all day long.

DS2 was a stinkin' breeze. I threw up one time. Didn't have all day nausea. You'll be fine, dear!! Hopefully, your appointment gets here soon and you get the reassurance you need!!

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