For those of you who had an unplanned or emergency csection and then went on to have a planned repeat csection, how was your recovery? Was it different from the unplanned csection? I'm on the fence about trying for a VBAC. I didn't have an emergency csection, but I did have an unplanned one after 21.5 hours of labor and then pushing for 1.5 hours. It was a huge let down to get that far and then need a csection. I don't want to go through that again and I'm wondering if just scheduling a RCS would just be a better option for me. I just wanted to hear others experiences. My recovery wasn't that bad but I'm worried about recovery with a newborn and a toddler at home. One of the midwives in the practice I go to says if I do decide on a RCS that I will notice a big difference in the recovery between a csection after laboring for so long and just going in and having the surgery without laboring.
Re: RCS question...
I know from friends who have scheduled their RCS that they has an easier time the second time around.
Good luck!
I had one unplanned c-section and 2 RCSs. My recovery with my 2nd c-section (1st RCS) was a little easier than my unplanned c-section. I knew what to expect so there wasn't any fear. I also knew that the more I walked after surgery the faster I would recover, to keep up with pain meds, etc. I wouldn't say that the pain itself was any less and if I had known about some of the "tips" to help my recovery the first time, both recoveries probably would have been about the same.
My 3rd c-section (2nd RCS) was a completely different story. I felt amazing during the surgery and afterwards. My recovery was very different. Instead of being content to stay in bed that first 24hrs I was begging to get up. I still needed pain meds but I was very mobile. The nurse said I didn't look like a post c-section mom when I finally got up because I was walking at a normal speed and upright. I was able to leave the hospital at around 30hrs PP.
I had a newborn and toddler with DS2 and DS3. I had help for the first week and a half each time. After that DH went back to work. I wasn't able to carry my toddlers but I was fine changing diapers, making lunches, and other daily stuff after that. I was dead tired from having multiple kids but I didn't have anything to do with the c-section.
If you would like to have a vaginal delivery you should try. If you don't care and a c-section is fine with you then have one. Don't schedule the RCS just because you think your recovery will be easier. I might be but it might not.
Everyone is different. My first c-section was after 36 hours of labor and it was a breeze. I was at a wedding 9 days after and moving around just fine after a week. My second was a planned RCS and my recovery was a nightmare. I couldn't move for two weeks and I was sore for nearly a month after.
My plan was to VBA2C this time, but because I've had two previous c-sections, I have what's called Placenta Accreta where a portion or all of the placenta attaches itself too deep into the uterine wall and there's a large risk of hemmorhage if I go vaginal. I have to have a third c-section and I'm dreading it. Personally, if I could do it over again, I'd have tried a VBAC the second time around.
Again, everyone is different. Just because I had a bad experience doesn't mean you will. My sister in law says her recovery was harder the second time as well, but not as bad as mine.