I have ALMOST 5 month old triplets, 3 months adjusted. My mom has been living with us because for me, triplets are not a one woman showespecially bc I'm EPing and that takes time. Dh works retail, odd hours but hes gone ten hours at a time So, my mom had been away for a week. She's due back tomorrow but texted to let me know she has a scratchy throat but feels fine. You ladies are the only ones who get the fear of preemie immune systems. My girls were born at 31 weeks. Here's my choices:
Amom comes and has "limited interaction" with the girls as you've described to me earlierno kisses, extra washing, etc. but still helps when DHs away
Bmom stays away and girls schedule gets jacked, they cry through my pumping.
What would you do?
4/13/12--1st u/s. IDENTICAL TRIPLETS (?!?)
PAIF and SAIF welcome

Re: Advice welcomedsick caregiver?
Agree with all this.