Curious as to what people are planning. I am just now starting to think about a party for DD and really not sure what to do here. Just family? Just us? Friend and Family? Other kids?
We ran through a number of options, including family only and friends with kids. We decided that since the first birthday party is really for the parents, we're throwing a big bbq and just inviting everyone. Hooray for summer babies!
We did decide that on the invite, we're going to put a timeline of events - 2-3pm: kids games, 3pm: cake cutting 4pm: grilling - that way people can plan their visit accordingly. I imagine my friends with kids will come early and leave after cake, and my friends without kids will come for cake and then stay for drinks and steak.
We're doing mostly family, with a few close friends that have kids around the same age. My husband has a big family, and we're doing it at our house, so kind of had to limit it. Weather can still be iffy in April, but hoping to mostly hang out in the backyard.
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We decided to do two, low key parties. One for close family, that will probably include presents. And, one with our friends who have little ones, where we put "no gifts" on the invitation. We didn't one a huge bash where we couldn't actually connect with people...and we didn't want our friends to feel they had to buy our kid a toy (that he certainly doesn't need!)...but we knew our close family would want to bring him a gift. So, two small parties.
We're not doing a theme or anything...just a BBQ and casual open house type gathering.
We are having one big party of family and friends amounting to 2832 people. We are also having our immediate families over for cake on the night of her birthday
We're having a big party. We had ~53 people show up at our house for their baptism last summer. We have big families...My parents are both 1 of 5 kids and DH's dad has 5 siblings.
Since April can be iffy and our house isn't great if the weather isn't nice enough for people to go in the back yard, we rented a lodge in a park. We're probably going to get Qdoba catering and start the party at 12 or 1pm. We'll just serve lunch, do gifts and have cake. We'll probably have a kid table set up with something fun to do for our nieces, nephew, cousins, and any friend's kids!
Wedding Fall 2007
Off OCP's since 9/08-started with BBT charts
Saw Ob/gyn May 2009
Blood work normal except single copy of MTHFR
Clomid 50mg May 2009
Clomid 50mg + IUI June 2009
Femara 5mg + IUI July 2009
Normal HSG July 2009
Femara 5mg + ovidrel+IUI August 2009
Femara 5mg +ovidrel + IUI September 2009
November 2009-normal lap
December 2009-met with RE
December/January-Injectible med cycle with IUI-Abnormal sperm morpology found-only 0-1% normal All Head defects.
Jan/Feb 2010 1st IVF with ICSI-5 week chemical pregnancy
Feb 2010-male infertility doc says DH's anatomy and blood work are normal so nothing he can do.
FET July 2010-BFP! Twin m/c @ 5.5 wks
Dec/Jan 2011 IVF #2 Only 4 eggs retrieved-Ganirelix dose messed up BFFN
Feb/March 2011 IVF #3 ER 3/9 9 eggs, 7 fertilized, ET 3/14, No frosties. BFN
IVF #4 ER 8/22 9R,7F ET 8/25-3 embies, 1 frostie! Beta 9/2= 54, 9/6=274, 9/8=625, 9/12=2953, 9/16 greater than 10,000. B/G TWINS born April 2012 @ 36wks & 1 day!
July 2014-going back for the frozen embryo! ET 7/28, heartbeat seen at 6wks1day with SCH. Miscarriage confirmed at 6wks4days
We are doing immediate family only, which will be around 20 people. We are having a lunch and grilling out, nothing major. March is a big month for birthdays for our family, so we usually do all birthdays together, but wanted to do something simply for LO.
For both my girls we have/or will be doing the following: We have invited family and close friends, which is about 40 people or so. We are having the party at our house, with food, cake, and a craft project for the older kids. And when the older kids aren't eating, doing their craft project, they will most likely be playing in the playroom. The party is really a celebration for our little girl.
Re: How big of a 1st Bday party??
We ran through a number of options, including family only and friends with kids. We decided that since the first birthday party is really for the parents, we're throwing a big bbq and just inviting everyone. Hooray for summer babies!
We did decide that on the invite, we're going to put a timeline of events - 2-3pm: kids games, 3pm: cake cutting 4pm: grilling - that way people can plan their visit accordingly. I imagine my friends with kids will come early and leave after cake, and my friends without kids will come for cake and then stay for drinks and steak.
We decided to do two, low key parties. One for close family, that will probably include presents. And, one with our friends who have little ones, where we put "no gifts" on the invitation. We didn't one a huge bash where we couldn't actually connect with people...and we didn't want our friends to feel they had to buy our kid a toy (that he certainly doesn't need!)...but we knew our close family would want to bring him a gift. So, two small parties.
We're not doing a theme or anything...just a BBQ and casual open house type gathering.
We're having a big party. We had ~53 people show up at our house for their baptism last summer. We have big families...My parents are both 1 of 5 kids and DH's dad has 5 siblings.
Since April can be iffy and our house isn't great if the weather isn't nice enough for people to go in the back yard, we rented a lodge in a park. We're probably going to get Qdoba catering and start the party at 12 or 1pm. We'll just serve lunch, do gifts and have cake. We'll probably have a kid table set up with something fun to do for our nieces, nephew, cousins, and any friend's kids!
Wedding Fall 2007 Off OCP's since 9/08-started with BBT charts Saw Ob/gyn May 2009 Blood work normal except single copy of MTHFR Clomid 50mg May 2009 Clomid 50mg + IUI June 2009 Femara 5mg + IUI July 2009 Normal HSG July 2009 Femara 5mg + ovidrel+IUI August 2009 Femara 5mg +ovidrel + IUI September 2009 November 2009-normal lap December 2009-met with RE December/January-Injectible med cycle with IUI-Abnormal sperm morpology found-only 0-1% normal All Head defects. Jan/Feb 2010 1st IVF with ICSI-5 week chemical pregnancy
Feb 2010-male infertility doc says DH's anatomy and blood work are normal so nothing he can do.
FET July 2010-BFP! Twin m/c @ 5.5 wks
Dec/Jan 2011 IVF #2 Only 4 eggs retrieved-Ganirelix dose messed up BFFN
Feb/March 2011 IVF #3 ER 3/9 9 eggs, 7 fertilized, ET 3/14, No frosties. BFN
IVF #4 ER 8/22 9R,7F ET 8/25-3 embies, 1 frostie! Beta 9/2= 54, 9/6=274, 9/8=625, 9/12=2953, 9/16 greater than 10,000. B/G TWINS born April 2012 @ 36wks & 1 day!
July 2014-going back for the frozen embryo! ET 7/28, heartbeat seen at 6wks1day with SCH. Miscarriage confirmed at 6wks4days