July 2012 Moms
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no heartbeat
shermans
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Today was our fourth wedding anniversary, a happy day until we went to our ultrasound and found no heartbeat. Last week we had the ultrasound, could see the heart beating but not enough for them to get the measurements they needed, they said it was still too early and wanted us to come back. I had a small feeling there might be something wrong, but I am one of those worrywarts Who often does. This morning I read eafogel's post and cried, now I am too sad to cry. I've had some tears, but it doesn't feel real yet. DC is Monday. DH keeps reminding me that it is OK, I will get over it, be thankful that its early and not a lot farther along,it could be worse, I agree, but it still hurts and i know he is trying to help but he doesnt quite get it. I am beyond thankful for my little guy and having him with me now helps. It just doesn't seem real yet.
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Re: no heartbeat
Dont be scared to grieve. We are here for you if you need us.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
What just happened in my diaper?!
jackson thomas. 8.9.12
I am so sorry to hear that.
So sorry for your loss!
And don't belittle your emotions - whether a loss is at 3 weeks or 38 weeks, every woman has a right to grieve. I've been there, it sucks.
"I'll love you forever,
I'll like you for always.
As long as I'm living,
my baby you'll be."
Together since 5/08 ~ Married 6/19/10 ~ TTC #1 since 8/10
BFP#1 3/26/11 ~ EDD 12/2/11 ~ Ectopic Twins left tube 7w3d
BFP#2 11/2/11 ~ EDD 7/14/12 ~ Robert Edgar born 7/18/12
BFP#3 9/28/13 ~ EDD 5/20/14 ~ Benjamin Clarence born 5/15/14
Thanks for the support ladies, It still doesn't seem real. I am guessing that will change come Monday.