I've been on moderate bedrest for the past 13 weeks due to pre-term contractions, so I tried to find things to do to keep entertained. I decided to put a little basket together for my DH as a "Welcome to being a dad of 2" kind of thing. I ordered things online and had been adding them.
I got a package today and DH opened it, brought the stuff in, and made a smarta$$ comment. I lost it and got upset at him. He ruined the whole stupid thing. It's no big deal really, but after focusing on it for the past month and looking forward to giving it to him, I'm all sad and mopey and angry now.
Re: Irrationally Mad At DH
Mine too. If he looks at me sideways I may have to hit him over the head with a cast iron skillet.
DH found a Christmas gift like that when we were dating and to this day he swears he saw the crazy come out in me that day. lol I didn't think I was that angry, but men see things differently. From what ya'll are saying I now remember how much I hated DH right before and especially after DS1 was born so it is probably a good thing for both of us that he is away for a while. I think it took me a good year before I could stand to listen to him eat again.
I am laughing so hard at all of these. I can't stand to have him eat around me either or just be close to me and breathing lol.
I feel less insane after reading some of these. I crazy-screamed at my SO today. Like, no words, just crazy-scream. It was not cute...
ETA: We were in the middle of a fight, but still... lol
Thanks for the laughs, ladies! I am right there with you all! Sometimes I feel like Cybil or Medusa with the snakes coming out of my head.
SO told me to stop taking stuff out on him and start taking it out on people at work. That's all fine and great but:
1. They aren't the ones who knocked me up.
2. They aren't the ones who get on my nerves.
3. It's not their fault you're a dumbass.