I wish I could do a clicky poll but I am not as savvy as some of you ladies. Anyway, what do you think of the following? Family tradition to have two middle names.
For boy:
Kole Finley Kai Lastname
Other options:
Everett
Reese after my cousin spelling stays
Thatcher
For girl:
Violet Hana Lily
Other options.
Liberty nn: Tori MIL's name
Audrey
Dru
Alana
Or?
Thanks all!
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Re: Opinions welcome
I prefer Cole to be spelled with a C and not a K. Everett is a nice name.
I like Audrey and Alana for girl names!
I agree with the others about spelling Kole with a C.
Of the other names you have, I sort of find myself drawn to Thatcher. It's different, but I think I like it.
Violet, Audrey and Alana are lovely. I am not crazy about Liberty, but it's fine.
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I also dislike two middle names, but can understand why you're doing it if it's family tradition. With that being said, I like Cole but dislike Kole a lot. I also love Kai. The other boy names are meh...NMS but not horrible, though I do tend to think of Reese as the spelling for a girl.
For girls, love Violet and Lily. Like Hana (prefer Hannah) and Audrey. Dru just seems incomplete to me, Liberty sounds stripperish and I'm just meh on Alana.
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From your boy names Everett is my favourite. Reese is nice as well, Cole is fine, but I really dislike Kole. Thatcher is NMS, it's someone who builds roofs.
I really like Violet. Liberty is nice, but I don't get the nn Tori from it. Aurdrey is a classic. Alana is NMS and I dislike Dru. Hannah is lovely, I'm not digging Hana (I'd pronounce Hana differently as well).
Everett Finley Reese
Violet Hannah Lily.
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I like Thatcher, but the other names and the girl names are nms.
Love that you're throwing in the associations with Hawaii. The road to Hana is not pronounced like Hannah though, it's "?HAH-nah?. Which is still nice but if you want the Hawaii reference I would pronounce it the same way if I were you. Congrats!
https://www.maui-vacation-expert.com/pronouncing-place-names-on-maui.html
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bfp#3 4/5/2011 Missed m/c discovered 5/24/2011 (10w 5d) baby Asher stopped growing at 6 weeks
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rx'd factor II gene mutation 7/11 prescribed 5000 units Heparin daily
rx'd Sjogren's Disease 8/11
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bfp #5 8-26-14 RAINBOW #2 Due 5-8-2015
I like double middle names only if they are used to honor family (both grandfathers or something) or if you want to use your maiden name as the 2nd middle name. Otherwise I hate the idea. If you have to do it, then I'd pair your names with a classic name, instead of having a whole mess of trendy or unusual names like Kole + Finley + Kai.
Of your names, I like Kai and Everett. Kole is spelled with a C and even then, it's not my fav. Thatcher is a roofer and I'm not a fan of Finley or Reese. Of your girl names I like Lily, Hana and Violet but not together. Really hate the others.
FYI, Hana and Hannah are NOT pronounced the same. The road in Hawaii is pronounced like H-on-a not H-ann-a
Again, it would be the real Hawaiian pronunciation, I admitted that I've been pronouncing Hannah H-on-a as you put it, my entire life.
So to clarify Hana, as in Road to Hana.
Finley is a family name, Reese and Lily both memorial names.
Cole is spelled with a K as well, just as Caty and Katy are variations. I personally don't think that makes it trendy. It's personal preference. My name is Nicole, some prefer Nichole. I like Kole.
As far as the double middle name thing, this isn't up for debate either. It is going to be done so I'm trying to come up with the best combo.
Thanks!
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bfp#3 4/5/2011 Missed m/c discovered 5/24/2011 (10w 5d) baby Asher stopped growing at 6 weeks
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rx'd factor II gene mutation 7/11 prescribed 5000 units Heparin daily
rx'd Sjogren's Disease 8/11
bfp #4 9-6-2012 RAINBOW Baby Ky born 5-9-13
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Just reread. Sounds bitchy but not trying to be, at work and bumping quick.
bfp #1 10/15/2009 m/c 11/4/09 10 weeks Lily you are not forgotten
bfp #2 4/5/2010 CP, m/c 4/12/10 5 weeks Baby Lo
Diagnosed PCOS 10/10 RX 1500 mg Metformin/day
bfp#3 4/5/2011 Missed m/c discovered 5/24/2011 (10w 5d) baby Asher stopped growing at 6 weeks
I know he is playing with his siblings in heaven right now...
rx'd factor II gene mutation 7/11 prescribed 5000 units Heparin daily
rx'd Sjogren's Disease 8/11
bfp #4 9-6-2012 RAINBOW Baby Ky born 5-9-13
bfp #5 8-26-14 RAINBOW #2 Due 5-8-2015