I have a FTM question.
Do you get up at night when you hear the baby cry or when the baby is fussing but not crying?
For example, after a MOTN feeding I put LO down and after a few minutes she begins to fuss/grunt/clears throat. I put her down when she is in a deep sleep because I hold her upright because of reflux issues. So she fusses for a bit and then she is quiet, then fusses, and is followed up by her being quiet. This process can last about 20 mins. until she is more or less quiet and back into a deep sleep. Her eyes are closed during the whole time. Would you get up during the process or is this the beginning of LO learning to self-soothe.
Another example, would be this morning she started to cry a little bit (about 30 seconds) and then became silent. She did this for about 5-10 mins. until I pushed her crib (its on wheels) into the living room where she fell back into a deep sleep. This cry/silence is a new pattern that she has been doing the last few nights. If I rock her or move her crib just a little bit she falls back into a deep sleep in about 5 minutes.
So before she would wait up crying and wouldnt stop crying so I just knew that it was time to get up. Would you get up in the following examples? Should I try to get to her before she starts to really cry or is this the start of her learning to self-soothe.
TIA
Re: Fussing vs. Crying
Agreed. Sometimes she will cry in the motn or when sleeping and she is actually fine as well. I give in about 30 secs to see if it is a wake up or a nightmare.
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