My 4 yr old DD goes to Montessori, in the summer they have camp that she attends 3 times a week to socialize with friends and keep her busy. It is a great school but now that she is 4 they take the kids on field trips to the zoo, museum, chocolate factory, which all sound great but I am not sure I am ready for her to start that. I like knowing she is at the school safe on the playground or inside. There are no parent chaperones allowed just faculty and kids. Am I being too paranoid about this and should just be letting her go? I wouldn't want her to be the only kid that has to stay behind with the younger kids but I am nervous about the entire situation.
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Re: Preschool field trips
Don't be nervous. The school and the teachers know exactly how to handle little ones in public. Most preschools take their classes to the same places every year, and the teachers know exactly what to do and where to go to keep their classes engaged and safe. Student safety is the #1 priority of most schools. If they weren't 100% confident they could keep kids safe at a location, they wouldn't go.
I would actually be much more comfortable with my child going on a field trip attended only by teachers than if parents were expected to chaperon groups of kids. Teachers are far more structured.
I work at a DC and we are extra careful with the children on field trips. We count, count and count somemore. We take enough staff to carefully watch over the children. We go to place that we know are safe and we can watch them closely. We check bathrooms before letting any child go in alone, including the men's bathroom (walked in on a guy one time
). Sometimes the field trips are fun, but stessful and we only let the staff that are up on their toes attend and help out. I would discuss with the director of the program what their rules and policies are for the program, ask some questions and if you are still not comfortable then maybe find a different program or see if you LO can stay back at the center. HTH
I would want to know the ratio. I, personally, am not comfortable with my preschoolers being anywhere that prohibits parents from attending.
That said, when I was a teacher, my students were much easier to keep together and transition to the activity and back to the bus when parents weren't around for field trips.
I would/do feel the same way.
My son went on a preschool field trip in the fall (age 4+) and I was a nervous wreck. I attended with him, but he went on the bus himself. I don't think that I would allow him to go without me.
Can she stay with you on those days? Or can you join her, or another family member?
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DS went on a couple trips when he was in the 3 year class that were local(holiday train show, fire house, library). No parent chaperones. They had a trip to the pumpkin farm and I was one of the chaperones. They asked me since he had a febrile seizure a couple weeks before the trip and both his teacher and I were nervous about him. This year, they have had 2 trips so far. 1 local and on to the farm. He went on both and there were not any parent chaperones.
This. DD's preschool encouraged parent chaperones, although part of that was because they needed us to help drive. But it was also nice knowing there were enough adults watching the little ones at busy places like the zoo.
I agree. although I was still incredibly nervous about the girls 1st field trip last summer and almost didn't let them go...I am so glad I did...they were obviously fine and had a great time...they still talk about it.