Can I vent for a minute?

mrsjenni · February 2013

I'm having a rough week.

I had my annual pap yesterday (lovely) which also was my follow up to the mass surgery I had in late November. (My surgery follow up appt was suppose to be in December, the same week my dad died. Which I cancelled and then forgot about.) Anyway, I just LOVE going to doctor's appts now and having to update my family history with "deceased" for my dad. Makes for a wonderful time. And when I told my OB {who delivered all three of my babies, delivered my sisters baby, and has become close to me/my fam} I totally cried. It was so hard to tell her. Or anyone, really. Ugh.

On top of that, tomorrow would have been my parents 37th wedding anniversary. Thirty-seven years. {But together for 40.} My mom is so sad We all are. It just SUCKS. I mean really!?! My dad was only 56. He should still be here. {Yes, my dad was 16 when my parents met and they married at 19.}

And then? I just got a call saying that someone hit my car. I mean, we know who it is and they are going to pay for it... but really? It's just what we need right now.

Our poor Acadia Guess we'll need a whole new bumper and front fender... hopefully nothing is wrong with the head/fog lights too. Ugh. It's also the only car we have that can hold all 3 kids, so I guess we'll have to rent a SUV/van while the Acadia is in the shop?? Ugh... I don't even want to think about this.

Good vibes our way? Anyone? Please?

/vent

Holly_1007 · February 2013

How about a big squishy random-internet-stranger hug?

(((BIG HUGS))))

MomtobeNJ · February 2013

Oh Jenni, I'm sorry.

You will be sad about your dad for a long, long time. And angry. And that's ok. Don't be afraid to cry. I think I've shared this with you before - I lost both my parents when I was in my 20's and it just sucks. There is no way around it. It will never be ok and it will never be fair.

mlf625 · February 2013

Oh, hon.

That's just so much suck. SO MUCH SUCK. I'm sorry. I wish you lived here, so I could help you out with the vehicle situation. And because, obvi, we'd be awesome friends.

kbetzner · February 2013

So sorry about your day! Hope it gets better

cmumama · February 2013

((hugs))

hmp1 · February 2013

Big hugs.

Insurance should pay for the replacement rental that is the same class as your car.

skyejo · February 2013

((hugs)) I'm so sorry about all you're going through I will be thinking of you guys tomorrow.

jenndub · February 2013

Really sorry Jenni. Weird internet hugs to you.

Shazzie116 · February 2013

Lots of *hugs*. Today sucks and calls for a nice tall glass of wine.

jbBeans · February 2013

*hugs* Sorry, that all sucks, a lot.

[Deleted User] · February 2013

Oh sweets. Big hugs. I know how you feel, when I went to talk to my OB about ppd I had to tell her about my mom. It sucked. Everything just kinda sucks. More hugs to you and give one to your mom too. Pm me if you wanna talk.

mrsjenni · February 2013

Thanks ladies!

hmp&mrj:
Big hugs.
Insurance should pay for the replacement rental that is the same class as your car.

She's my mom's friend so we're not going through insurance... she just wants to pay for it out right (and I know she has it, so I'm not worried about her not paying us). But I'd feel bad also asking for a rental too, ya know? Ugh. I hate this.

Stasi · February 2013

I'm so sorry your having a rough day! I'm sending all the positive vibes I can muster your way.

Also, what an amazing love story between you mom and dad. I know it must hurt so much not to have him, but everytime you talk about your dad and mom and your family it's so clear that their love grew and is alive in all of you still.

((hug)).

mrsjenni · February 2013

Stasi:
Also, what an amazing love story between you mom and dad. I know it must hurt so much not to have him, but everytime you talk about your dad and mom and your family it's so clear that their love grew and is alive in all of you still.

((hug)).

Thank you for that.

tinyhumantoe · February 2013

:-(

Ugh. I'm sorry.

:-/

misscheapandchic · February 2013

I'm so sorry. So many hugs!

MeatballEsq · February 2013

Jenni I'm so sorry Sad

((HUGS))

MomtobeNJ · February 2013

Jenni, are you and your sisters going to do something nice with your mom tomorrow?

Cheenomae · February 2013

Aw man...sounds like no fun at all. I'm sorry you're having a tough day. Internet hugs and good vibes all over the place for you!!

OceanLover26 · February 2013

I'm so sorry. Sad

Good vibes your way for sure!

2poodles2Love · February 2013

Sending lots of hugs your way! I can't even imagine the heartache of loosing a parent. Thinking of you!

mrsjenni · February 2013

MomtobeNJ:
Jenni, are you and your sisters going to do something nice with your mom tomorrow?

We're making her dinner! We take good care of her

MomtobeNJ · February 2013

mrs.jenni:
MomtobeNJ:
Jenni, are you and your sisters going to do something nice with your mom tomorrow?
We're making her dinner! We take good care of her

That's sweet! I have no doubt.

angeleighhh · February 2013

thinking of you, jenni. our luck has been shitt lately too so I hope it's better soon!

emasters · February 2013

I am so sorry! It definitely isn't fair that your dad was taken from your family so soon. Give all your kiddos a big family hug when you get home and just have a good cry! I hope you feel better soon!!!

freeatlast2014 · February 2013

Oh man, that's a lot for 1 week (year, even). Hang in there!

jocymama · February 2013

Sorry Jenni! That all suckssss!!! I would give you a glass of wine but the bump only likes martinis and beer. Soooo have a glass (or bottle) and I hope you feel better soon!