February 2012 Moms
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Head thump our DH day!
You know the commercial where the mom is talking to the baby saying "mommy's eating a french fry" and the baby head thumps the mom? That's what I want to do to my DH. And I'm sure others feel the same. So let's post why you want to head thump your H!
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Re: Head thump our DH day!
DH and I had an argument about me "nagging" him by constantly reminding him of things (plans, appointments, etc) and how I need to trust him more. So the dog had an appointment for the groomer yesterday. I asked him Monday night if he was going to come back during the day to get her or take her in the morning. I said the only reason I'm asking if because if you are taking her in the morning I will take DD to daycare and make sure that the dogs are feed so she doesn't go all day without food. He said he'd take her on the way to work. I took DD to daycare and feed the dogs and went to work.
To show him I trust him I didn't make any mention of the dog or ask if he took her. I was heading home last night and called the groomer to see if she was ready to be picked up. He never took her. When I asked about it last night his exact words were "you didn't remind me". I wanted to smack him so hard! I said, but remember I'm suppose to trust you enough to not remind you of things like that anymore. He just said "fine, whatever" and went in the other room. I still don't know if I am suppose to remind him of things or not.
Oh my H made a stupid comment one day while we were dealing with the life insurance stuff. He threw a fit because the guy talked to me about his health assessment and H said that was a HIPAA violation. So a week later we get a bill in for the hospital when H hurt his shoulder and had to go get xrays, etc. and he wanted me to call to set up a payment plan. I kindly declined. Wouldn't want to violate his HIPAA rights.
He finally told me his comment bit him in the arse. I think it's funny. And still won't deal with his stuff for that reason.
I am annoyed with DH and he is not even home this week.
Here's why: When he is not here we have extra time in the mornings to do things like read books together, play a quick game of cards, etc. When he is here everyone is rushed. He moves things in the house and just shoves things places, so there is always stuff on all horizontal surfaces and he can never find anything (including things of MINE he moves).
I hate that it's easier when he is NOT here, in the organizational sense. But I hate how trapped I am with the 3 kids when he isn't here and how it's challenging to get everything done with three solo.
Pretty much, I want him home more, but I want the previously organized, not messy version of him.
And even though I know now would be a terrible time for us to get a dog since Lauren doesn't walk yet and is always on the floor, it's still pissing me off.
Luckily my H knows he has no power in that situtaion. He brought home the lab puppy without talking to me about it about 5 weeks before DS #2 was born. And he was dumb enough to say that I could potty train her because I would be up with the baby anyway. Yep. He is still thankful he survived that mouth vomit moment.
Anyway, so I can pretty much come home with anything I want. I would love a pot belly pig. But I will settle for a dog!
If you don't snore, if you like dogs and if you aren't a turd in general, you are safe!
LOL!