I was thinking of buying one of the car seats that grow with baby, like this one:
https://www.target.com/p/graco-smartseat-all-in-one-car-seat-rosin/-/A-13516953
This carseat wouldn't rest in a stroller though. Do/did any of you put your baby directly in the stroller? At a reclined position or anything? What are your thoughts on this?
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So what you want is to use a convertible seat from the beginning. Keep in mind that many convertible seats do not safely support a newborn because of their harness design and upright angle, so if you choose to go that route, make sure you thoroughly investigate independent reviews and articles as to whether that seat is appropriate to use with a newborn, no matter what the manufacturer suggests. Car-seat.org site has some wonderful reviews and information.
If you do end up skipping the infant seat, you will have to unstrap and pull out your likely sleeping newborn from the convertible carseat and then either place them in a carrier or put them in stroller that will allow for complete and flat recline or those that come with a bassinet option. Most babies will need to have good head and trunk control before they can sit directly in a more upright stroller, which is often around 4 months and older.
Advantages of having an infant seat is that the baby can remain sleeping anyplace and anytime and still easily travel with you where ever you go. This helps when you are running short errands and don't have to strap in and unbuckle in and out every time or if you are trying to enjoy a rare meal out or don't want to wake your cranky infant when the only place they readily fall asleep is the car.
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I very much considered doing the same but eventually realized it would be well worth the price of an infant car seat for even a few months of easy transitions in and out of the car. We have our car seat in the middle and it seems all the harder to get a tiny floppy baby in/out of the seat...especially when I expect her to be asleep most transitions!
I also took into account the weather...it will still be cold/snowy here and I don't want to buckle baby into seat in a puffy snow suit (deemed not safe) so the infant seat allows baby to be strapped in and covered appropriately..otheriwse I'd have to undress baby in car and buckle her in and then cover her.
I don't expect to use the infant bucket for longer than a few months before switching to a good backfacing convertible but it still seemed like a worthwhile purchase.
That said, if you do need to save money and really don't want to use an infant bucket you can make it work you'll just need to strategize and buy an appropriate stroller (though that alone may be an added cost more than an infant seat)!
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You can definitely use a convertible seat from the beginning. Just do your research because some (britax in particular) don't have low enough bottom harness slots to properly fit a newborn, so you want to be careful what you choose. Some kids sleep well in the infant bucket and it's convenient, but my older two *hated* the infant seat so we never took it out of the car anyway. The screamed nonstop in the car until we moved them to a convertible seat, so we never used it as a carrier. My son actually does like the infant seat (possibly because we bought a new one that has better padding) so we do use it as a carrier.
That said, the graco smartseat isn't a great seat. I would look at the diono radian, the graco size4me70, graco myride and first years true fit over the smartseat. The concept of the smartseat was great, but it doesn't have the longevity other convertibles have due to having a shorter shell than many other seats. It's definitely not worth its relatively high price tag.
Don't let other people scare you, if you don't get an infant seat you will be fine. I did not have an infant seat and I really had no issues. When they are so little that they sleep all the time they usually fall back asleep pretty easily. I also did not run errands all day, every day (especially during the early months), so the occasional wake up during transfer was no big deal.
We don't have fancy strollers either. Both my graco single and graco double recline back *almost* flat and he layed in those fine in the early months.
I agree with other people saying the seat you mentioned has its drawbacks. We have the graco myride and we love it! In fact, both my kids have one.
I would say if you are the kind of person that wants to leave home every day doing multiple errands, you will probably be better off with the infant seat. However, it is totally up to you!