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PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

Ok. I fucked up, like I REALLY fucked up. Here is the truth. I created the new account because I felt like the comments I made with Polska were stupid and I didn't want to be associated with them. I will not be using that account and will only use this one from now on. The first intro I gave was correct, and the Provera thread is all true. My details:

Me 27, DH 32, trying since October, I have no cycle, which is terribly frustrating, I am a PhD fellow, DH is in the Air Force. This is all true.

Again, I am sorry I lied. I see there is no need to. If you think this lame intro will follow me around, then I can understand that. I would like to stay and figure out what is wrong with my cycle, since I don't know of anyone else who has been through this. But if I'm going to elicit more backlash, then I would rather leave and not a further idiot out of myself. I am sorry.

peanutmuse · February 2013

Thanks for owning up. I, for one, appreciate it.

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

Sure. I hope I can still be accepted here, after acting like an idiot.

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

MeatandBandP:
peanut+muse:
Thanks for owning up. I, for one, appreciate it.
OP, if you have only actually been trying since October, why have you already started with testing?

The only testing we have done is DH's SA, because he has a slight varicocele. I haven't done any other testing. I am only on Provera.

Wolfette, that must have been someone else.

MrsM507 · February 2013

krptcmschfmkr128:
Uncensored swear words? Sweet!

I thought I was the only one who noticed, haha.

ETA I can appreciate a well placed F-Bomb!

OP... I appreciate you owning up to your mistakes. Be honest, don't lie... give the respect you want to receive.

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

krptcmschfmkr128:
PhDLSU0613:
MeatandBandP:
peanut+muse:
Thanks for owning up. I, for one, appreciate it.
OP, if you have only actually been trying since October, why have you already started with testing?
The only testing we have done is DH's SA, because he has a slight varicocele. I haven't done any other testing. I am only on Provera.
Wolfette, that must have been someone else.
So you lied about the testing you had on both accounts? Just trying to get all ducks in a row.

No, not on both accounts. To be honest I am getting confused also. I tried to cover my ass and I look like an even bigger loser. I have not been tested for anything, other than taking the Provera. This is my second time taking it. DH is getting SA results back today. I have never taken Clomid.

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

krptcmschfmkr128:
PhDLSU0613:
krptcmschfmkr128:
PhDLSU0613:
MeatandBandP:
peanut+muse:
Thanks for owning up. I, for one, appreciate it.
OP, if you have only actually been trying since October, why have you already started with testing?
The only testing we have done is DH's SA, because he has a slight varicocele. I haven't done any other testing. I am only on Provera.
Wolfette, that must have been someone else.
So you lied about the testing you had on both accounts? Just trying to get all ducks in a row.
No, not on both accounts. To be honest I am getting confused also. I tried to cover my ass and I look like an even bigger loser. I have not been tested for anything, other than taking the Provera. This is my second time taking it. DH is getting SA results back today. I have never taken Clomid.
Ok. Thanks for owning up. I just wanted to confirm that you hadn't had anything done.

No problem, thanks for giving me a chance to tell the truth.

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

Wolfette139:
PhDLSU0613:

Wolfette, that must have been someone else.
You must have a twin then
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/mklempel85/mybump/mybio
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/PhDLSU0613/mybump/mybio

Wolfette, you are right. I have to own up to that too. I have not taken any of the medications that I said I did in the past. Just DH's SA from today and my Provera second cycle. That was so dumb, and as you all kept asking me questions, I felt cornered. I hope you can disregard the lies and believe what I am currently doing. I honestly feel like crying and all I want to do is finish my *** dissertation. I am so sorry for everything.

lobosabby · February 2013

**!!!!

Did it work?

ETA: NOPE

MrsM507 · February 2013

It takes a sick person to lie about IF. You got honest, caring and even sympathetic replies on 3T from women who are ACTUALLY struggling.

whirli · February 2013

MrsM507:
It takes a sick person to lie about IF. You got honest, caring and even sympathetic replies on 3T from women who are ACTUALLY struggling.

Agree with all this. Maybe if we ignore it it'll go away?

sueann911 · February 2013

PhDLSU0613:
Wolfette139:
PhDLSU0613:

Wolfette, that must have been someone else.  
You must have a twin then
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/mklempel85/mybump/mybio 
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/PhDLSU0613/mybump/mybio 
Wolfette, you are right. I have to own up to that too. I have not taken any of the medications that I said I did in the past. Just DH's SA from today and my Provera second cycle. That was so dumb, and as you all kept asking me questions, I felt cornered. I hope you can disregard the lies and believe what I am currently doing. I honestly feel like crying and all I want to do is finish my *** dissertation. I am so sorry for everything. 

While I would be willing to believe an apology to cover up one lie, this is just too much. In my mind, you're always going to be a liar who only tells the truth when presented with evidence of your lies.

If you truly wanted to start over you would have confessed the third account at the beginning of this especially after wolf first asked about it. But, you denied it.

I for one don't believe you at all now. IMO, you need to take a bump break. Your dissertation is more important than your rep on the Internet. If you can't see that you've got issues that are way worse than being unable to tell the simple truth.

peanutmuse · February 2013

Fucked

***

Had to try it too.

ETA: so f*cking doesn't work, but fucked does. Nice!

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

katyj25:
This seriously just pisses me off! I spent a lot of time over these past couple of weeks giving you (or one of your AEs) great advice. You have completely slapped me (as well as others) in the face.
So was all of the crap about your husband a lie too?
I don't think anyone here is going to believe a word you say now. You are probably best to just leave.

Katy, I honestly feel awful about making up my infertility issues. As I told you earlier, I always think of the worst case scenario and was thinking that I would need to do all the testing that you all were doing. I was immature and impulsive. If I would have known that you went through hell and back with these treatments, I never would have opened my mouth. You are right, I was a sick *** and I probably don't even deserve to have kids at this point. With all the damage I have done to my body over the years, I wouldn't be surprised if i don't have kids. That makes me very upset, but I know you have it much worse. I made a terrible mistake to put myself in that hypothetical situation and mock you. That was not fair of me, and not fair to any of the other women. As for my DH, he is still in the Air Force. He got hurt about a year ago working on a jet and had surgery. This is all stateside. Again, I feel like an idiot for ruining your morning, and I understand why you would not want me back.

whirli · February 2013

Dx: Munchausen syndrome.

PhDLSU0613 · February 2013

sueann911:
PhDLSU0613:
Wolfette139:
PhDLSU0613:

Wolfette, that must have been someone else.
You must have a twin then
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/mklempel85/mybump/mybio
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/PhDLSU0613/mybump/mybio
Wolfette, you are right. I have to own up to that too. I have not taken any of the medications that I said I did in the past. Just DH's SA from today and my Provera second cycle. That was so dumb, and as you all kept asking me questions, I felt cornered. I hope you can disregard the lies and believe what I am currently doing. I honestly feel like crying and all I want to do is finish my *** dissertation. I am so sorry for everything.
While I would be willing to believe an apology to cover up one lie, this is just too much. In my mind, you're always going to be a liar who only tells the truth when presented with evidence of your lies. If you truly wanted to start over you would have confessed the third account at the beginning of this especially after wolf first asked about it. But, you denied it. I for one don't believe you at all now. IMO, you need to take a bump break. Your dissertation is more important than your rep on the Internet. If you can't see that you've got issues that are way worse than being unable to tell the simple truth.

Sueann, you are right. All of you ladies are right. I shouldn't be here pissing you all off. You don't deserve it, and I was a sick *** just like Katy said. I'm sure karma will come around to me one day. If I were to come back, should I keep this SN or change? I am sorry for everything, again.

sueann911 · February 2013

PhDLSU0613:
sueann911:
PhDLSU0613:
Wolfette139:
PhDLSU0613:

Wolfette, that must have been someone else.  
You must have a twin then
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/mklempel85/mybump/mybio 
https://www.thebump.com/profiles/PhDLSU0613/mybump/mybio 
Wolfette, you are right. I have to own up to that too. I have not taken any of the medications that I said I did in the past. Just DH's SA from today and my Provera second cycle. That was so dumb, and as you all kept asking me questions, I felt cornered. I hope you can disregard the lies and believe what I am currently doing. I honestly feel like crying and all I want to do is finish my *** dissertation. I am so sorry for everything. 

While I would be willing to believe an apology to cover up one lie, this is just too much. In my mind, you're always going to be a liar who only tells the truth when presented with evidence of your lies.

If you truly wanted to start over you would have confessed the third account at the beginning of this especially after wolf first asked about it. But, you denied it.

I for one don't believe you at all now. IMO, you need to take a bump break. Your dissertation is more important than your rep on the Internet. If you can't see that you've got issues that are way worse than being unable to tell the simple truth.
Sueann, you are right. All of you ladies are right. I shouldn't be here pissing you all off. You don't deserve it, and I was a sick *** just like Katy said. I'm sure karma will come around to me one day. If I were to come back, should I keep this SN or change? I am sorry for everything, again.

I suggest not coming back. At all.

Your BSC truth will come out in a new screen name eventually and I for one can't even stand to respond to you with this name.

Now I see you lied about your DHs injuries and deployment as well. You just need to leave. Forever. You've got much bigger issues than TTC.

MrsM507 · February 2013

You need to focus on your mental health before you even consider TTC.

rockopera · February 2013

I only vaguely understand what is happening here. But I'm trying to understand is what is so difficult about posting on a message board, and how many tries you need to 'get it right'? Now it just seems like you're with all of us for fun. BSC AW right here.

You should find another community. Because no one here can actually believe ANYTHING you put out there now.

BankerBSN · February 2013

ColeRose:
Just when I thought MrsW and A&E2 were the craziest of the cray more of them come out.

Yes

We are now beyond the land of taking responsibility and admitting you were wrong into the land of BSC.

B.S.C.

nlscroggins · February 2013

wow, PhD. you really are fucked [ha!] up. I suggest you leave and if you ever do come back in the very distant future, tell the truth about everything from the word go. that way you won't confuse yourself with all your lies. oh, and get some mental help in the meantime.

MrsN6912 · February 2013

I have just sat here and read this in utter disbelief. Why would anyone lie about fertility issues?? That is honestly sickening to me. I myself would give absolutely anything if I didn't have my issues and they don't even compare to the hell some of these women have been through! And you have the audacity to come on here and lie about and make light of them. Just why?
And to lie about an injury and deployment? That is some bad karma.

peanutmuse · February 2013

Banker&BSN:
ColeRose:
Just when I thought MrsW and A&E2 were the craziest of the cray more of them come out.

We are now beyond the land of taking responsibility and admitting you were wrong into the land of BSC.
B.S.C.

Agreed. I stepped away after the third SN (that I was unaware of) popped up. How many more are out there???

artistlife · February 2013

Wow. Op, you are seriously fucked up. At first I thought you were cool for putting on your big girl panties, but then you put on your crazy pants.

You need to step away from the bump. I really hope you are faking your phD stuff, too. I would not want you as my nutritionist.

Shayliz · February 2013

I take back my slight defending of you from yesterday.

sunlavender · February 2013

I miss all the good stuff while at work

Emily&Chad · February 2013

GhostMonkey:
This is some very elaborate MUD.

HAS to be...

madasm0530 · February 2013

woahhh this *** is fucked up.

ha.. i typed fucked. hahahahha

Deblondie1 · February 2013

This whole thing got really, really weird. At first I rolled my eyes now I'm just weirded out.

tinamorgan · February 2013

Holy Train Wreck!!! I just can't seem to look away!

KenziK · February 2013

Wow, you've got some serious issues OP. How is anyone supposed to believe anything you are saying is true when you have lied about every aspect of your life?

MrsM507 · February 2013

Slapptastic:

I wasn't going to touch this but FWIW, none of it sounded plausible because of all of the holes in her story. My first thought was why would someone do fertility treatments while their SO was OOT, unless they had frozen samples saved... I just didn't get any of her story. Then it came out that they had only been TTC for a few months. Nothing was adding up to me. I don't remember if I played, but I just figured that it was bad MUD from the start.

I need to take a class in recognizing MUD. I generally give the benefit of the doubt and try to offer some constructive info.. "just in case". then I end up feeling like a fool/idiot.

ETA words

artistlife · February 2013

Slapptastic:
katyj25:
Slapptastic:
thekikimonster:
I must have missed a lot this weekend.....
This.
I'm not touching anything else here with a ten foot pole.

This sh!t goes back a good couple of weeks.
I did read some of her stuff (the whole MH is in Arizona (or was it NM?) because he got wounded overseas)
What I was referring to (as in missed stuff) was the whole 4 different s/n thing. 
I wasn't going to touch this but FWIW, none of it sounded plausible because of all of the holes in her story.  My first thought was why would someone do fertility treatments while their SO was OOT, unless they had frozen samples saved...  I just didn't get any of her story.  Then it came out that they had only been TTC for a few months.  Nothing was adding up to me.  I don't remember if I played, but I just figured that it was bad MUD from the start. 

The sad part is, I don't think it's mud. I think she is really just that looney. I know a girl just like her IRL.
The chick I know, claims her step son is really her biological child, because she donated eggs to her DH and his first wife, who we all went to school with.
Problem with that is, he was born when we were 17. I don't think they allow 16 year olds to donate eggs to each other or attempt fertility treatments.

MrsM507 · February 2013

Slapptastic:
MrsM507:
Slapptastic:

I wasn't going to touch this but FWIW, none of it sounded plausible because of all of the holes in her story. My first thought was why would someone do fertility treatments while their SO was OOT, unless they had frozen samples saved... I just didn't get any of her story. Then it came out that they had only been TTC for a few months. Nothing was adding up to me. I don't remember if I played, but I just figured that it was bad MUD from the start.
I need to take a class in recognizing MUD. I generally give the benefit of the doubt and try to offer some constructive info.. "just in case". then I end up feeling like a fool/idiot.
ETA words
I actually usually give the benefit of the doubt, but in this case there was just too much that was just not adding up.
A lot of the time I try to help out noobs as well, but they don't generally have these convoluted stories. If something sounds way out of whack, it probably is.

I guess I just never thought someone would post on 3T lying about infertility. Blah!

bornmommy · February 2013

cjchio:
I don't think you should come back. Bye.

Don't let the door hit cha'!

....

on another note....

fucked. tehe Party!!!

BoogieMonster629 · February 2013

Yikes. This is all fucked up.

Spookster · February 2013

Please seek INTENSIVE counseling you seriously need it, and get it BEFORE you bring an innocent child into your BSC fantasy world. You are fucked in the head and this all makes me seriously ill to my stomach.

I for one think you need to take a permanant bumpcation, with no return. That is my advice.

glitzandglitter · February 2013

Banker&BSN:
ColeRose:
Just when I thought MrsW and A&E2 were the craziest of the cray more of them come out.

We are now beyond the land of taking responsibility and admitting you were wrong into the land of BSC.
B.S.C.

This. PhD you have some serious issues.

lp0 · February 2013

Wow this is crazy! OP I don't understand why you are so desperate to be apart of a board that you've made a fool out of yourself in front of and that will NEVER believe a word you say again. You are better off finding a different community. I hope this was MUD but if not I would definitely get some help before having kids.

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