LGBT Parenting

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Hello everyone! 

I'm Carolyn. 

Stumbled upon the LGBT board and was very excited to see that it existed. I'm a first time Mom to my DS, Dylan. I'm a 25 year old queer little lady, and my partner is f-t-m transgendered. We found a known donor last year, and conceived on our 5th month of trying. We were very lucky to have our dreams come to fruition so easily, even though it seemed very hard at the time. I just wanted to introduce myeslf.. I find myself desperately seeking LGBT connections. When I turned 18 I moved to Chicago in order to really have a big community, but then I met my partner and he wanted to live where he grew up.. so here I am in good ol' Indiana, and queer friends are nowhere to be found. Especially since I'm a mama now and have no time to explore the few disappointing gay bars in the city.  

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Re: greetings!

  • Hi, welcome to the board! I hope you enjoy it as much as the rest of us. 

    I'm not sure if we have any Indiana members but there are quite a few Ohio members. I, myself, am about 45 minutes away from Richmond, IN in Troy Ohio.

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  • Welcome!

     

    ETA: I sent you a PM Cabetty.

    TTC since February 2013

    LGBT Regular with an AE while TTC

    And who am I? That's a secret I'll never tell.
    You know you love me.
    xoxo

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  • Welcome! This truly is a wonderful group. I look forward to getting to know you better! My partner and I (who also identify as queer) live in Columbus, Ohio. We are on our second IUI and I am fairly certain this month did not take but I still have over a week until we know for sure.

     

     

     

    Welcome! 

    Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
    First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

    C began IUI's
    7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

    1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

    Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

     

    Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

     

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  • Hello! I am always excited to see new people who identify as queer on the baby boards! I myself identify as gender neutral, more on the m side, but with no hormone therapy. We are currently TTC for our first! Glad to have you on board!

    Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m...  Our perfect little miracle.  Here's how we got here:

    My lovely wife:

    5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN

     

    Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train

    IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN

    IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN

    September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon

    IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013

    December:  Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.

    IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014,  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools.  Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...

    1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!

    Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/ 

  • welcome to our lovely group!!! I have facebook group you can join for the memebers that are in ohio or in your case near ohio. but, if you have any questions please inbox me .

     

  • Thanks so much for the warm welcomes! : I can't believe there are somany Ohio folks. I'm from Carrollton, OH and lived there up until i left for college. It's about 45 minutes south of Canton. I frequented the Interbelt lol. My first taste of the community :
    I will be visiting home lots once Dyl is just a but older and the weather is nicer.
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  • Just wanted to add my warm welcome.
    I'm originally from Chicago but live in Toronto with my partner. There is so much more queer community here than I imagine there is in Indiana. Here's hoping you can carve out a niche there that feels good and like home. Welcome to this online community!

    ****loss discussed*****

    We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.

    Our IUIs
    with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.

    Our IVFs:
    IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response

    IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
    BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
    2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
    BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
    1st ultrasound (3/6  6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm. 

    ***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***

    FET #1 December 2014
    Intralipid infusion on Dec 10. Transfer of 1 day 3 nine-cell embryo into my uterus on Dec. 19. (acupuncture immediately before and after)
    BFP on Dec. 27; Beta 1 Jan 2 (14dp3dt): 665, Beta 2 Jan 4 (16dp3dt): 1859, Beta 3 Jan 6 (18dp3dt): 4449, Beta 4 Jan 10 (22dp3dt): 12,251.



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