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Sherlock

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This is a random odd post, just FYI.

Our last loss before DD was in Dec 2011. We actually found out we were pg when the RE called, which happened while we were at the movies seeing Sherlock Holmes 2. We were waiting for the call, so I had my phone in my lap, and it lit up right at the end of the movie. I literally walked out to answer it with 60 seconds left in the film. That's why we called that baby Sherlock. We found out we were going to lose the baby two days later on Dec 23, and I actually mc the day after Christmas.

Anyway, I haven't seen the end of that movie. Until today. I don't know know how to describe the feeling, it's just odd. I'm sure I'll always associate the movie with the baby and loss. That's just part of it.

I think I would feel similar if I were to watch the Winnie the Pooh movie that came out in July of 2011. We specifically went to see it inbetween finding out the twins' heartbeats had stopped and the DC. We wanted to do something fun with and for them, and that's what we chose. It's odd to associate losses with movies, but it's the way it is.
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    spincat9spincat9 member
    <<Hugs>> I'm not a movie person, but I think the associations you made are so sweet.  They really made me a little emotional reading your post! 
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    martinimommamartinimomma member
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    lt;lt;Hugsgt;gt; I'm not a movie person, but I think the associations you made are so sweet.nbsp; They really made me a little emotional reading your post!nbsp;

    This. Especially the Pooh part. So sweet.

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    Big hugs!
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    (hugs)

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    FmrAFBratFmrAFBrat member
    ((HUGS)) I'm sorry.
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    Hugs!!

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    ((Hugs)) 
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    KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    ((Hugs)) I totally get it.
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    karma79karma79 member
    I saw Inception at the theater the night before my m/c. It was the last night I was blissfully carefree. I associated that movie with the end and wouldn't watch it while I was pg with L. I totally get it. Hug!
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