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AmberN30AmberN30 member
in March 2013 Moms
Is anyone else scared that sex won't be the same after delivery? I'm so worried that it won't feel the same for me or my husband.
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  • Abeja1226Abeja1226 member
    It hurt and felt weird for about 3 months, then it was like normal. Fwiw I didn't tear either.
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  • jen1022ljen1022l member
    It hurt for 3ish months, and was uncomfortable for about 2 more months after that, then it was normal again.... I breastfed, so dryness was an issue till my daughter went down to 4 feedings a day. My hubby said nothing felt different after the fact.

    my tips would be.... Lots of lube and a glass or 4 of wine the first couple of times
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  • mrs.birdiemrs.birdie member
    My personal experience was that it hurt/was uncomfortable for 6 months and then was just like before. DH said it did not feel different for him at all.
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  • jmayamamajmayamama member

    imagemrs.birdie:
    My personal experience was that it hurt/was uncomfortable for 6 months and then was just like before. DH said it did not feel different for him at all.

    Pretty much this.

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  • doremi29doremi29 member

    imagejen1022l:
    It hurt for 3ish months, and was uncomfortable for about 2 more months after that, then it was normal again.... I breastfed, so dryness was an issue till my daughter went down to 4 feedings a day. My hubby said nothing felt different after the fact. my tips would be.... Lots of lube and a glass or 4 of wine the first couple of times

    This.  TBH, the bf'ing reeeeally killed my sex drive, but once DS weaned, I was back to normal.

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  • MSW_721MSW_721 member
    I also had issues with dryness because of bfing. I don't remember how long we had to use lube. Maybe a few months. Other than that, it did hurt the first few times but was fine after that.

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