TTC After a Loss

throat punch time!

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  • I'd like to TP the receptionist at my dentist's office for asking me "when is the baby due" after I was scheduling an appointment for my next cleaning...

    I'd also like th TP the salon where I was supposed to have a massage yesterday...they called an hour before and had to cancel (ugh!) so I rescheduled it for tomorrow, but I was really excited to do something fun yesterday!

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  • I had my TP all ready last night but now I can't do it...I was telling DH about this thread and how I was going to post about it today!  :)  

    I am the Executive Coordinator for the company I work for and was planning a meeting in Key West for our sales group and some customers.  The hotel emailed me yesterday afternoon and said they no longer had our rooms available!  I LOST it and was furious since we had already invited customers and had their confirmations that they could come!  

    I called the manager of the girl I was working with immediately last night and left a message for him to call me immediately.  He called earlier this morning and told me he'd try to find out what happened.  He just now called again and confirmed that the rooms WILL in fact be ours.   HUGE relief!  I think that girl still deserves a TP though...  :)

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    BFP #2 February 2009 | m/c March 2009 | 4 weeks 3 days
    Testing on mom and dad for possible reasons all came back normal.
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    BFP #4 5/13/11 | m/c 6/15/11 | 8 weeks 6 days
    BFP #5 2/13/13 | CP 2/19/13 | 4 weeks 
    BFP #6 3/21/14 | Heard the HB on 4/16 | m/c 4/21/14 | 9 weeks
    Testing results all returned normal and baby was a GIRL.
    More testing on mom and dad for other issues all returned normal results.
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    BFP #8 9/28/17 AHHH!!!  |  EDD 6/6/18

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    I'd like to TP the receptionist at my dentist's office for asking me "when is the baby due" after I was scheduling an appointment for my next cleaning...

    I'd also like th TP the salon where I was supposed to have a massage yesterday...they called an hour before and had to cancel (ugh!) so I rescheduled it for tomorrow, but I was really excited to do something fun yesterday!

    Rude receptionist. I'll TP her for you too. I had a bad experience with my dentist after our loss and a rude comment she made to me about it. She's no longer my dentist because of it.

     

     

     

     

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  • **Miscarriage mentioned**

    TP to my friend who recently proved she can't be confided in when she chose to tell a group of mutual friends about my mc after I specifically asked her to keep it between us. We have since had a conversation about it but now that I'm distancing myself she is trying to get all up in my business. I emailed her yesterday and told her that I'm really busy for the next few weeks and not to be surprised if she doesn't hear from me much. Her response was a very confrontational text that we need to talk about this. Not answering. Double TP!

                               
                  
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    **Miscarriage mentioned**

    TP to my friend who recently proved she can't be confided in when she chose to tell a group of mutual friends about my mc after I specifically asked her to keep it between us. We have since had a conversation about it but now that I'm distancing myself she is trying to get all up in my business. I emailed her yesterday and told her that I'm really busy for the next few weeks and not to be surprised if she doesn't hear from me much. Her response was a very confrontational text that we need to talk about this. Not answering. Double TP!

    I'm so sorry. That was a really shitty thing your friend did. ((HUGS))

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  • I would like to TP my coworker who wanted me to ask our boss to move a meeting to another room location, because "there is no way they could get mad at me because I have had a rough year with my loss". Um I'm sorry but I don't care where we meet and the hell I am going to use my loss as a tool to get what YOU want! Ugh some people have no tact.

    I would also like to TP the sub who is in for my assistant today. She tells me that my workload would not be as much if I had volunteers to help out. Um that is why I have an assistant that you are subbing for! Sorry that you thought you were going to sit on your butt and get paid to do nothing, but my assistant and I work hard all day!
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  • I'd like to TP the nurse at the Nurse-Family Partnership who called me yesterday asking if she could stop by the talk about "the healthy of our growing baby."  I signed up for this service the day my pg was confirmed, in November!  It's been almost 2 months since we lost our LO at 12 weeks.  I was sooooo upset.  I still feel mad at her. With up to a quarter of pg's ending in mc, I would think a pg related medical service would stay more on top of things.
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  • "I'd like to TP the nurse at the Nurse-Family Partnership who called me yesterday asking if she could stop by the talk about "the healthy of our growing baby."  I signed up for this service the day my pg was confirmed, in November!  It's been almost 2 months since we lost our LO at 12 weeks.  I was sooooo upset.  I still feel mad at her. With up to a quarter of pg's ending in mc, I would think a pg related medical service would stay more on top of things."

    Stupid nurse! 

                               
                  
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  • I am soooo sorry.  We told our parents right away after of BFP and asked them to keep quiet... Neither side did, but then when it came to the mc, they "felt I needed space to tell people on my own."  WTF? Why would I want to have to repeat devastating news to people I hadn't told the good news to in the first place! Agh! Family and friends can be a nightmare sometimes... Hang in there Samjen!
    BFP 11/24/2012  MMC 1/21/2013 - BFP 3/29/2013  MC 4/8/2013 - BFP 4/25/2013 MC 5/6/2013 - 5/17/2013 Diagnosed with LPD - BFP 8/24/13  MC 9/6/2013
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  • *Losses Mentioned* 

    I would like to TP my boss for being an insensitive and lying b!tch. 

    First she tells me that I should begin training for a new position, when she has already hired someone for the job. This has gone on for a month now, and I guess she doesn't have the lady balls to tell me the truth.

    Then she tells me on monday, that I should have been fired for missing so much work. The only time I've missed work in the past two years was when I had my losses. I explained this to her, and she told me that it didn't matter what my excuse was, I should have been taken care of months ago. I was furious. 

     

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    *Losses Mentioned* 

    I would like to TP my boss for being an insensitive and lying b!tch. 

    First she tells me that I should begin training for a new position, when she has already hired someone for the job. This has gone on for a month now, and I guess she doesn't have the lady balls to tell me the truth.

    Then she tells me on monday, that I should have been fired for missing so much work. The only time I've missed work in the past two years was when I had my losses. I explained this to her, and she told me that it didn't matter what my excuse was, I should have been taken care of months ago. I was furious. 

     

    WTF? That's awful! I would go to HR and talk to them about this if you can, because that sounds really unprofessional.

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  • imageellajune2012:
    imageCrunkal:

    *Losses Mentioned* 

    I would like to TP my boss for being an insensitive and lying b!tch. 

    First she tells me that I should begin training for a new position, when she has already hired someone for the job. This has gone on for a month now, and I guess she doesn't have the lady balls to tell me the truth.

    Then she tells me on monday, that I should have been fired for missing so much work. The only time I've missed work in the past two years was when I had my losses. I explained this to her, and she told me that it didn't matter what my excuse was, I should have been taken care of months ago. I was furious. 

     

    WTF? That's awful! I would go to HR and talk to them about this if you can, because that sounds really unprofessional.

     

    Several complaints have been filed against her, and nothing has ever been done.

    I am looking for another job. I only landed this one due to a layoff a few years ago, and I just kind of stayed because it was convenient.

    I may call the HR hotline, and file an anonymous complaint, but I doubt it will do any good.

     

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  • I want to TP my SIL who was over this week mind you I am 6 days post DC and tried comparing her csection to my situation with losing our twins. WTF, not comparable at all. You took your baby no matter how obnoxious he is home.

    Thankfully my husband was super swift in having her exit.
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    I want to TP my SIL who was over this week mind you I am 6 days post DC and tried comparing her csection to my situation with losing our twins. WTF, not comparable at all. You took your baby no matter how obnoxious he is home. Thankfully my husband was super swift in having her exit.

     I'm so sorry - that's terribly insensitive. I'm glad yh was able to usher her out quickly!

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  • I want to TP all of China for not doing RhoGAM shots at all and making me sit here are worry about whether or not we will ever have kids because they are so behind in their medical practice. I better get started if I'm going to TP all of China. Soooo many people here....*sigh*
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  • imageellajune2012:
    imageCrunkal:

    *Losses Mentioned* 

    I would like to TP my boss for being an insensitive and lying b!tch. 

    First she tells me that I should begin training for a new position, when she has already hired someone for the job. This has gone on for a month now, and I guess she doesn't have the lady balls to tell me the truth.

    Then she tells me on monday, that I should have been fired for missing so much work. The only time I've missed work in the past two years was when I had my losses. I explained this to her, and she told me that it didn't matter what my excuse was, I should have been taken care of months ago. I was furious. 

     

    WTF? That's awful! I would go to HR and talk to them about this if you can, because that sounds really unprofessional.

    Yeah this is terrible. I'm so sorry your dealing with this but I would definitely visit HR and file a complaint. Totally unprofessional.

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