Hey everyone my name is Cindy and im a senior in high school graduate this year in may on the 25th YAY! but im young and 18. i am going to college after a year or so when baby gets here. Im 13 weeks pregnant and baby is due on August 12th just looking for some advice on anything and how to get through my days with a baby on the way and with a baby bump. feel free to tell em anything.
First of all, congratulations on your pregnancy! And also for having the courage to become a mother at such a young age
I see that a lot of people have viewed your post, but no one has responded!
I'm not a super experienced mom...I'm 28, and I have a 10-month-old little boy. It has been both amazing and challenging at the same time. No matter how exhausted, helpless, or frustrated I may feel at times, the reward of having a beautiful baby is the best reward anyone could ever ask for!
My advice to you during your pregnancy would be:
#1 Try to relax as much as possible. My mom kept telling me over and over to do everything that I enjoy doing now, because it's very difficult to find personal time - this is ridiculously true!! Especially if you're working a/o going to school.
#2 I cannot stress this enough. Sleep AS-MUCH-AS-POSSIBLE.
#3 Try to get some exercise or do relaxation activities often. I did prenatal pilates, and I found it to be really helpful...both for muscle tone and just stretching in general. Plus, being in the most stress-free state of mind is best for your bump!
#4 Save money if at all possible. Kids are more expensive than you think!
#5 Reach out to all of your friends and family members for advice...and if you get advice from a know-it-all, just take it with a grain of salt! Every mom has their battle stories to tell. But it's great to have a support system.
#6 Keep a journal - I wish I would've done this, but I didn't!
#7 Do your research - on everything baby, from bottles and diapers to immunizations. The more knowledgeable and prepared you are, the less scared you will feel when confronted with a situation.
#8 Enjoy your pregnancy!!!!!! It is such a beautiful and romantic time in a woman's life. I have never felt as good about myself as I did during my second trimester (third was a different story!)
And keep posting if you need more advice - I think lots of moms are willing to reach out! Best of luck
My name is Nadia Smith & I'm with the Rockingham County Young Moms Connect Program. We offer many supportive services to young mothers/families in Rockingham County. We are active in all 4 high schools providing monthly support group meetings. We have other activities/services that are outside of the schools as well. Please give me a call at 336.623.6002 ext. 204 or email me at nadias@rockinghamkids.org so we can discuss how our program can serve you.
I hope things continue to go well with you this school year and with the pregnancy! Take Care!
thank you so much for your advise it really helps me see things differently. i need all the help i can get school is becoming a nightmare my teacher look down on me now and i just upsets and other around me get the best of me.
Congratulations Just remember that you will get through the stage of getting upset all the time ( I currently just stopped...somewhat) Hahaha and do your best with school!! Ignore the teachers looking down on you, my best friend went through the same thing. People are just old-fashioned! The best to you and your peanut!
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First of all, congratulations on your pregnancy! And also for having the courage to become a mother at such a young age
I see that a lot of people have viewed your post, but no one has responded!
I'm not a super experienced mom...I'm 28, and I have a 10-month-old little boy. It has been both amazing and challenging at the same time. No matter how exhausted, helpless, or frustrated I may feel at times, the reward of having a beautiful baby is the best reward anyone could ever ask for!
My advice to you during your pregnancy would be:
#1 Try to relax as much as possible. My mom kept telling me over and over to do everything that I enjoy doing now, because it's very difficult to find personal time - this is ridiculously true!! Especially if you're working a/o going to school.
#2 I cannot stress this enough. Sleep AS-MUCH-AS-POSSIBLE.
#3 Try to get some exercise or do relaxation activities often. I did prenatal pilates, and I found it to be really helpful...both for muscle tone and just stretching in general. Plus, being in the most stress-free state of mind is best for your bump!
#4 Save money if at all possible. Kids are more expensive than you think!
#5 Reach out to all of your friends and family members for advice...and if you get advice from a know-it-all, just take it with a grain of salt! Every mom has their battle stories to tell. But it's great to have a support system.
#6 Keep a journal - I wish I would've done this, but I didn't!
#7 Do your research - on everything baby, from bottles and diapers to immunizations. The more knowledgeable and prepared you are, the less scared you will feel when confronted with a situation.
#8 Enjoy your pregnancy!!!!!! It is such a beautiful and romantic time in a woman's life. I have never felt as good about myself as I did during my second trimester (third was a different story!)
And keep posting if you need more advice - I think lots of moms are willing to reach out! Best of luck
Hi Cindy, Congratulations on being a SENIOR!!!
My name is Nadia Smith & I'm with the Rockingham County Young Moms Connect Program. We offer many supportive services to young mothers/families in Rockingham County. We are active in all 4 high schools providing monthly support group meetings. We have other activities/services that are outside of the schools as well. Please give me a call at 336.623.6002 ext. 204 or email me at nadias@rockinghamkids.org so we can discuss how our program can serve you.
I hope things continue to go well with you this school year and with the pregnancy! Take Care!