Trying to Get Pregnant

Frustrated

Hello everyone. Been trying for just over a year now and no such luck. Have been charting for about 6 months and I am so confused and have no clue how to read my charts or if I'm even doing this right. Both of us have had test done and everything seems fine. Debating whether to go to a fertility clinic or not. Having a hard time finding when I'm ovulating as I don't think it is at 14 days. I also think that some of the problem might be that we're not having enough sex at the right time. Everyone I know is either having a baby or just had one it i get really emotional especially around those that are pregnant "by accident". Just not sure what to do anymore. I'm 32 and just worried that if I wait too long that it will only get more difficult.

 

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  • Can you link your charts for us to see, perhaps we could see something to help with?


         

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    Hello everyone. Been trying for just over a year now and no such luck. Have been charting for about 6 months and I am so confused and have no clue how to read my charts or if I'm even doing this right. Both of us have had test done and everything seems fine. Debating whether to go to a fertility clinic or not. Having a hard time finding when I'm ovulating as I don't think it is at 14 days. I also think that some of the problem might be that we're not having enough sex at the right time. Everyone I know is either having a baby or just had one it i get really emotional especially around those that are pregnant "by accident". Just not sure what to do anymore. I'm 32 and just worried that if I wait too long that it will only get more difficult.nbsp;


    Not every woman ovulates at 14 days. Last cycle I ovulated at CD 19 and this cycle CD 16. Link to your charts would be helpful. I understand the frustration and hope you can find some help here.
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  • I suggest you chart on fertility friend.com.  It will tell you when you ovulated based on your temps, OPKs, CM, etc.  
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  • imagemanderz223:
    Not every woman ovulates at 14 days. Last cycle I ovulated at CD 19 and this cycle CD 16. Link to your charts would be helpful. I understand the frustration and hope you can find some help here.

    This is exactly why I am so glad I started charting.  My O dates have ranged from CD18-28.  If I was trying to time sex around CD14, I'd be missing my FW by a long shot every time.   

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