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Any MSP moms considering or gone through a natural birth? I'm fairly certain I would like to have a natural birth at a hospital, and am looking for good classes to take that will help prepare me for the process, and coping through the pain. Any suggestions? I know the hospital offers courses (we are birthing at Abbott), but would love to hear from moms who have taken courses and what other courses you have taken. Was the child prep course sufficient for your natural birth experience? Please explain why if it was or was not. Thank you for your help in advance!

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    Hi!  I am going to try for a natural birth, but it's my first child, so we'll see how it goes.  I am going to be taking Hypnobabies classes.  I have heard good things about them.  I think the other most common classes for natural child birth are Bradley classes, but I've heard more mixed reviews about them.  I've heard that some Bradley classes have a lot of horror stories about hospitals, and that Hypnobabies classes tend to be more positive.  But I'm sure it depends on the class.

    Good luck to you!

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    I also really want a natural drug free birth.  This is my first pregnancy and I'm really early still, but one of the things we've decided to do to aid in this is use a midwife.  Haven't really looked into birthing classes yet, but as we get closer I'll check them out.  I would love to hear about your experience and any tips you have once the baby comes :-) 
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    I did have to be induced, but gave birth pain med free at Methodist. They worked with me to make sure that my wishes to have as few interventions as possible were followed even though I was a high risk pregnancy. While on pitocin I did have to be on IV, but they put me on a rolling one and gave me waterproof, wireless monitors so that I could continue to move around. They had me go through transition in a warm tub to ease the pain.

    The only class we took was the one day all in one childbirth and baby care class at Amman. It was fully sufficient for us, but I have had migraines since childhood so I had a lot of pain coping mechanisms. As always, your mileage may vary and you should go with what you feel you need. 

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    I would look into classes at Blooma or BabyLove if you are looking for a med-free birth.

    Honestly, I don't think you are going to find as much support at a place like Abbott or United for a med-free birth.  The hospitals with the higher level NICUs are used to seeing women with complications and have high c/s rates and I honestly feel that a lot of the nurses are not as prepared to deal with uncomplicated births.

    Everyone at Methodist was very supportive of my desires for a med-free VBAC (although I did end up with an epidural after a full day of labor and I believe it helped my body relax so I could continue to dilate after I stalled).   But I had a nurse even perform healing touch and it was fabulous.

    But like I said, Blooma or BabyLove are going to be your best options for classes.  Don't take the hospital classes.

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    Everyone at Methodist was very supportive of my desires for a med-free VBAC (although I did end up with an epidural after a full day of labor and I believe it helped my body relax so I could continue to dilate after I stalled).   But I had a nurse even perform healing touch and it was fabulous.

    I'm always glad when you post about your Methodist experience since I'll be delivering there this time:)

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    Honestly, I don't think you are going to find as much support at a place like Abbott or United for a med-free birth.  The hospitals with the higher level NICUs are used to seeing women with complications and have high c/s rates and I honestly feel that a lot of the nurses are not as prepared to deal with uncomplicated births.

     

     

    I disagree with this.  I gave birth at Abbott and it was a wonderful experience. When I arrived and was admitted, they asked me what my pain management plan was.  I let them know I would was planning a med free birth.  They were very supportive of this and did not once offer or push pain medications to me.  They were very accommodating with options such use of a birthing ball, birthing tub, shower, etc.  I had 2 nurses during my labor and both were excellent. I highly recommend Abbott!

    (not that this answers your original question; I just had to comment on it).  

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    I'm hoping for a med-free birth in the next 6 weeks or so.  We decided to take a Bradley Method class in preparation.
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    Do you mean med-free? I had an excellent pain-free medicated natural birth, TYVM.
    AMEN! As my college Developmental Psych professor pointed out "Unless the baby comes out of your mouth, it's a NATURAL DELIVERY!! STOP getting hung up about the rest of the details!" Your first vs. your second baby's delivery are like night and day experiences. With the first you're hung up on the "medication/non medication" the second you're like "just do what needs to get the little one here already!" When I went into my first I was little miss anti intervention and ended up needing an induction and enough medication to knock out a horse to manage the pain to the extent that my body could relax and get the job done. As friends who previously worked as L&D nurses told me "The whole point behind the pain medications, hypnosis, Bradley, epidurals, etc. is to get the mother to relax to let her body take over and do its job". Then after delivery I had heavy bleeding and it took me 2mo+ to fully recover just from the delivery. With DS, I went in there with an open mind and more assertive about stating my needs and telling people to just leave me the F alone and I'd ask when *I* wanted something. I ended up going far longer and needing far fewer medications the second time because I let myself relax through the process and if I needed/wanted something, I relied upon my nurses to make several recommendations for ME to choose from. At no point with DS did I feel pressured and the nurses were a lot more helpful because we were working together. It also took half the time that our first did. Knowledge is power. Obviously, go to as many classes and read as many books as possible. But also, don't get caught up on them as they're someone's opinion. Talk to some L&D nurses. You may find that they aren't evil people who want to do evil things and push drugs on you. I actually found my L&D nurses to want me to go longer without medications and save them for when I was to the point of not helping the process along from being stressed out. No one knows what each L&D will be like until you get there. The most important thing you can do is remain flexible and realize at the end of the day, it's all about a healthy baby and Mommy regardless of which method/path that takes you down.
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    Do you mean med-free? I had an excellent pain-free medicated natural birth, TYVM.
    AMEN! As my college Developmental Psych professor pointed out "Unless the baby comes out of your mouth, it's a NATURAL DELIVERY!! STOP getting hung up about the rest of the details!" Your first vs. your second baby's delivery are like night and day experiences. With the first you're hung up on the "medication/non medication" the second you're like "just do what needs to get the little one here already!" When I went into my first I was little miss anti intervention and ended up needing an induction and enough medication to knock out a horse to manage the pain to the extent that my body could relax and get the job done. As friends who previously worked as L&D nurses told me "The whole point behind the pain medications, hypnosis, Bradley, epidurals, etc. is to get the mother to relax to let her body take over and do its job". Then after delivery I had heavy bleeding and it took me 2mo+ to fully recover just from the delivery. With DS, I went in there with an open mind and more assertive about stating my needs and telling people to just leave me the F alone and I'd ask when *I* wanted something. I ended up going far longer and needing far fewer medications the second time because I let myself relax through the process and if I needed/wanted something, I relied upon my nurses to make several recommendations for ME to choose from. At no point with DS did I feel pressured and the nurses were a lot more helpful because we were working together. It also took half the time that our first did. Knowledge is power. Obviously, go to as many classes and read as many books as possible. But also, don't get caught up on them as they're someone's opinion. Talk to some L&D nurses. You may find that they aren't evil people who want to do evil things and push drugs on you. I actually found my L&D nurses to want me to go longer without medications and save them for when I was to the point of not helping the process along from being stressed out. No one knows what each L&D will be like until you get there. The most important thing you can do is remain flexible and realize at the end of the day, it's all about a healthy baby and Mommy regardless of which method/path that takes you down.

    Great point about how the point of all the non-pain med and med options allowing women to relax to let their body do what it needs to do to get the baby out. I had a preference for a nonmedicated birth, but decided to keep an open mind to whatever birth scenario I ended up having. After needing cervidil+pitocin, having back labor, and very little sleep the previous two nights, I opted for an epidural which allowed me to take a two hour nap during labor during which I finished dialating. At that point, going med-free was too stressful and slowing me down. My water had broken, so it was important to get the baby out sooner rather than later.

    When I was pregnant, I had thought about taking Bradley classes or something like that to help with pain management, but realized there was no guarantee I wouldn't end up with a complication that would require a c-section or other intervention that would make a med-free birth impossible. Personally, I would hate to spend all that time and money focusing on going med-free, and then not be able to use that knowledge.

    Ultimately, I think every woman should do what she feels she most wants to do. I know many women go through back labor and/or pitocin unmedicated, and feel good about having done so - and that's great. If we have another child, I'll probably go with the same approach of trying for med-free if my birth situation allows for it, but won't feel too bad if it doesn't happen. I do think though it is wise for women to keep an open mind and not feel like a failure if they prefer to go unmedicated and end up not doing so.

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    Even with the time spent (and money spent) on a Bradley class, I think that the skills you learn are applicable to more than just birth.  It helps you understand breastfeeding, nutrition, having a healthy pregnancy, exercises to keep your body moving when you feel like a beached whale, and what all is physiologically happening to you during labor and birth so that if you have to make alternate choices, you feel a bit more prepared to evaluate your options.  If I end up being induced, I can't say that I won't be turning down the pain meds if the contractions get wild with pitocin, but I can also know that I at least gave it a shot first without and feel like I can be somewhat prepared for what is coming my way. The classes were also hugely helpful for my DH who really didn't know how to provide soothing comfort to me when things get stressful.  That aspect alone was HUGELY helpful to us both.  
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    Everyone at Methodist was very supportive of my desires for a med-free VBAC (although I did end up with an epidural after a full day of labor and I believe it helped my body relax so I could continue to dilate after I stalled).   But I had a nurse even perform healing touch and it was fabulous.

    I'm always glad when you post about your Methodist experience since I'll be delivering there this time:)

    :)  You'll love it.

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    I had a wonderful med free birth at St. Johns with my son and will be going back in a few weeks to deliver new baby. They just put in a waterbirth room, and assuming it's not being used I plan on doing that. The nurses were great and very supportive of my natural birth. I didnt take any classes, but read a lot about it and checked out tbe NB boards.
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    Ugh, totally forgot that I had already posted on this thread, whoops! Forum moderator, please delete!
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    I did a med-free birth.  We took classes at Amma--just the regular 3 week childbirth class, nothing special.  I felt prepared and the staff supported me.  (I delivered at Fairview Ridges).  I honestly didn't consider taking any specialized classes because I figured "it's gonna hurt, you just need to get through it" and that worked for me.  That being said, I had a super fast labor and easy delivery.  What I wasn't prepared for was how painful recovery was.  Even if you go med-free for delivery, I'd suggest at least taking some Tylenol when you're done :)  Good luck!
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