September 2013 Moms

I feel so ugly

I feel like crap. Acne is out of control and gross. I feel super fat everywhere. And I just don't feel attractive at all. I'm 11 weeks and gained about 10 pounds. But mostly it's the acne that really bothers me. Most of the time I have no energy after work to do any walking around the neighborhood. And on the weekends I want to take advantage of not having to do anything so I'm a couch potato. I feel guilty bc I got pg after 1st ivf try. I'm so happy to be pregnant but I really feel sooo ugly. Thanks for letting me vent !

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  • My acne is atrocious too. I break out a lot on my chin and above my eyebrows. I cried a lot about it yesterday but I was very emotional already. Everyone keeps saying it will get better in the 2nd trimester so I'm just hoping for the best. I have to keep reminding myself that nobody cares as much as I do and that I'm my biggest critic. The couch has also been my best friend so you're not alone!
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  • I was breaking out like crazy a few weeks ago. I am 11 wks. I got Witch Hazel and since I have been using it my skin has been so much better. Still breaks out but not like it was. I was getting them on my neck chin and they were big sore under the skin ones. I was my face with Dove soap and then use Witch hazel.
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    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
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  • I'm sitting on the couch right now trying to decide if I should run or not. Not sure if I'm being lazy or if I really am as tired as I feel.
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  • I strongly recommend a new haircut or a trip to a makeup counter for some new eyeshadow and lip gloss ASAP. There's not much you can do about feeling uncomfortable with how your body is changing over the next few months. Just try to focus on something else that can make you feel good!
    DS: 2/17/11          DD: 9/4/13
  • Same here. Face is broken out horribly so I don't want to wear makeup, and I feel so uncomfortable in everything I own. I haven't gained any weight yet but everything is getting snug. I'm very thankful to be pregnant as it took us a while but its not fun to feel unattractive. I have found painting my nails help since those look oh so lovely right now and I have a hair appt for a new cut and color next week!
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    I strongly recommend a new haircut or a trip to a makeup counter for some new eyeshadow and lip gloss ASAP.

    this! what a great idea!! new lipstick always makes me feel better :)

    i go in for an appointment today and i swear i have gained all my weight in my thighs. we will see how much it actually is! 2 weeks ago i had gained 1.5 pounds but i definitely think i have gained waaaay more than that these last two and that it is ALL in my thighs!

  • Same here! I feel so ugly and fat! My energy level is non existent I work in health care in physical therapy so I'm on my feet all day and when I get home I barely feel like making dinner so exercise is out of the question for now. Ugh! This is my first pregnancy and I am beyond blessed to be pregnant, I am just not enjoying the things that come with it, but wouldn't give them up for the world.
  • I feel ya with that! I couldn't even button one of my coats last weekend :. As far as acne my dermatologist gave me a wash called RE10 it's a sulfa type wash and a clindamycin liquid he said both were safe during IVF and PG I use those when the breakouts come on... But the witch hazel is great for everyday toning and helps keep redness away! I feel terrible when I sleep all the time and I am glued to the couch like I have been.... I can't wait together some energy back!
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    HSG- unsuccessful, SHSG (dialated)-no blockages
    7/11-Clomid (unmonitored) BFN,
    #1 Fresh IVF 9/11: w/ ICSI & AH (only option): (1 transfered, 8BF) = BFN!!
    #2 FET: 2 transferred (2 6BF) 12/11 = BFFN!!
    Surprise + HPT on break! 2/12 Beta 1: 6 Beta 2: <5 = c/p ( RE had given me provera... So pretty sure this ruined everything)<BR> #3 Fresh IVF 3/12: w/ ICSI & AH (2 transfered 8BF & 7BF, 1 to freeze) = BFMFN!
    New RE 5/12
    6/14 Hysteroscopy
    #4 Fresh IVF 8/12: 5dt of 2 5AB blasts = BFN!... what else is new?!?
    New RE insists its a transfer issue, immunology checked & good
    #5 IVF FET 1/13 under anesthesia : Two 5 day blasts transferred
    + HPT!! Beta1: 2315 Beta2: 6442 Beta3: 31,061
    First u/s 1/30/13: Shows 1 healthy heartbeat!!

    Was he was right? I wasted 4 IVF's and the doctors were not getting the catheter in?!?
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  • Its so reassuring to read posts like this and all the responses because I can relate to them all and its nice to know its not just me, my skin is horrible and I haven't gained any weight but with the bloat I'm not comfotable in the majority of my clothes, Also I go to work during the day then soon as I get home I put on pajamas and crawl into bed, on weekends I don't even bother getting dressed since I prefer not to leave the house so I can let my skin breath without makeup! Hoping 2nd tri is kinder to me, but I am thankful I haven't had to deal with morning sickness!
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  • I felt the same but I went to the mall and splurged on a new clinique face wash and make up ; the wash was just the kind for sensitive skin and it helped a lot! But the makeup is what did it. The perfect foundation and blush made all the difference in my confidence level.
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