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November 2012 Moms
10Nessie
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Ugh, H's annoying friend (long)
10Nessie
member
Really long, pointless vent ahead. Read if you're bored...
So last night H's friend called him to see what he was doing. We'll call him B. (B does this every weekend in attempt to get H to go and hang out with him.) B is a total bachelor and has no girlfriend or kids, so he thinks I never let H do anything fun.
H tells him we're hanging out at home, but he's welcome to come over to our house if he wants to hang out. B comes over and is completely obnoxious the entire time.
He would ask my "permission" every time he wanted to mix H and him a drink and I would ask him why he's asking my permission and he would say, "Oh, I thought you were the boss around here." Because once again he thinks I never let H have any fun, when in reality H makes his own decisions and it's H's choice to not always hang out with him, you know, considering we have a baby now and do more of our hanging out at home.
B made inappropriate comments all night. Here's one example. At some point we were saying how life is so different since we had L and I made a comment about how I've hardly had 30 minutes to myself since she's been born (not a bad thing, just a comment about how our priority is her). So he says to me, "Really? You haven't even had time to pleasure yourself?"
I get sick of him and decide to go upstairs and take a shower and get ready for bed. After, I come back down to get my pump. He's drunk and says, "You smell amazing...and your boobs look huge!" He then kept making comments about my boobs. I have no idea why H didn't smack him...he's not one to put up with anyone being like that to me.
I go to bed and H comes to bed after awhile. Apparently B decided to sleep on our couch, which I suppose was a good thing so he didn't drive drunk. Well he stayed up half the night talking loudly on his cell phone and he kept letting our dog outside when we told him that the dog needs to stay inside because it was like zero degrees out and with B being drunk, I didn't want him to forget the dog out there for the night. We have a German Shepherd and live on an acreage, so he is outside a lot, but he always sleeps inside.
I get up this morning and B must have got up sometime during the night and drove home. In our living room I find a partial bottle of wine. I had it open in the fridge, but it had one of those freshness sealers on it. Well apparently B saw it and decided to drink most of it during the night and left the rest out. Obviously I'm not drinking the rest considering he drank it straight out of the bottle.
Ugh. All of this combined, I was rather annoyed with H's friend. I talked to H about him this morning and he just said, "Yea, he was just drunk, that's how he gets." Ha, ok, I guess being drunk justifies being an annoying jerk. I can't imagine why B is still single...
Ahh, vent over!
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Re: Ugh, H's annoying friend (long)
I thought H would see how creepy B was being, but I think you're right, he just thinks he's harmless.
Nut punch is a great idea...next time this will be me...
B needs help. Honestly, those are the actions of an alcoholic.... drinking after everyone else is gone.. and also the fact that YH said that he just gets that way.
YH needs to talk to him, not only for your sake... ugh... talking about your boobs?... but for B's sake. He obviously has a problem.
Also, with LO in the house, B probably shouldn't come over anymore?
Sigh. I wouldn't have been able to stand it, You poor thing!
Oh I totally agree. Every few months B decides he needs to quit drinking and will be sober for a couple months and be a much more pleasant person. Last summer he did this and I told him I much prefer sober B to drunk B, but it only lasted so long.
This was the first time he's been over since L was born and I figured, it wouldn't be a big deal and it would be nice for H to hang out with a friend while staying home. Hmmm...bad thinking on my part. H just looked at him and shook his head and told him he was being inappropriate, but that's it. H is normally way over protective when it comes to that, so I was very surprised he didn't get mad.