I know the first name Emme is mostly said like Emmy. But I still feel like most people will think Emme is said like "Em", and that's how I often want to say it when I see it. So, my vote is for Emmy.
As an alternate-my sister's name is Emily and we all called her Emi as a nn growing up. Although-I can't really think of when we wrote it down or spelled it, so not sure how we "knew" that was the spelling. LOL
I don't think the spelling of a nickname matters. We call our DD Livi, I spell it L-I-V-I, DH spells it L-I-V-Y and a friend of ours spells it L-I-V-V-I-E.
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Re: NN spelling Emmy or Emme
Baby Name Popularity by State
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
We were team green with #3, but if we had a girl, her name would have been Emerson with the nn Emmy. I wanted to avoid any confusion with just "Em".
ETA: I actually wanted to spell it Eme (like the first 3 letters of her first name) but thought people would confuse that with "Em" as well.
Carter Robert 7.18.08 | Brynn Sophia 5.24.10 | Reid Joseph 9.10.12 | Emerson Mae 1.27.14
Carter Robert 7.18.08 | Brynn Sophia 5.24.10 | Reid Joseph 9.10.12 | Emerson Mae 1.27.14
I go almost exclusively by my nickname and write it out all of the time. So it does matter.
OP, I think Emmy avoids confusion.
I don't think the spelling of a nickname matters. We call our DD Livi, I spell it L-I-V-I, DH spells it L-I-V-Y and a friend of ours spells it L-I-V-V-I-E.