I am considering using my grandma's first name, Yuvonne, as my baby's middle name. The only problem is that I prefer the conventional spelling-- Yvonne or even the French version, Evonne. Do you think it would be rude to change the spelling?
I'd change it. Yuvonne makes my want to say "you Vaughn"
Ditto.
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I would change it. It's still your grandmother's name, just spelled different for identity and confusion. I would liken it to buying a vintage dresser and then refinishing to make it useful for today's taste.
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I have a similar situation. DH's grandmother, who he was very close to, was named Bibian. ick. She was supposed to be Vivian, but apparently the Dr. didn't like the name and suggested Bibian (?). Anyway I would love to honor her with using her name in the mn spot if we have a girl, but I would only consider Vivian. DH thought it was a little weird that I wanted to change it, but I feel like it's still honoring her even if we're changing it a little bit.
I definitely think changing it is fine! You are still honoring her by using her name, even if you change the spelling. And I think Yvonne is much better than Yuvonne. You aren't insulting grandma or anything by spelling it differently! I don't see anything rude about it- you aren't obligated to name your kids after anyone anyways!
I am actually doing the same thing. Our little girl's first name is my grandmother's name, and I changed the spelling from her "ie" ending, to the more proper "y".
Same name, and she didnt have a problem at all with the change. She was just as excited as she would have been with her spelling.
Re: OK to change the spelling of grandma's name?
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Ditto.
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I would totally change the spelling. The cycle stops with me.
BTW, I was just thinking about what a nice name Yvonne is the other day and wondering why I seldom see it mentioned here.
I am actually doing the same thing. Our little girl's first name is my grandmother's name, and I changed the spelling from her "ie" ending, to the more proper "y".
Same name, and she didnt have a problem at all with the change. She was just as excited as she would have been with her spelling.