How many extracurricular classes do you have your child in? DD attends a Montessori preschool full time + 1.5 hours of aftercare because DH and I both work. Her school offers a ton of extracurricular classes during aftercare hours. It's about $40-50 per month per class and each class is once a week. If aftercare students are not in the classes, they have outside play time, then inside for a story, and play time centers with blocks, coloring, etc. I usually pick DD up when she's either ending the story or just starting centers. We signed DD up for Mandarin class(DH and ILs are bilingual, so it's important to us that DD gets some formal language practice), but since she's only 3, we decided to hold off on the other classes for now. For the past 2 weeks, her teacher told me that DD was showing interest in the PE sports class, and would I like to enroll DD? DH and I talked about it, and how important is sports class at this age? It's not like DD isn't getting enough physical activity, so we're not worried about that. However, if she's interested in it, I suppose we could enroll her, but we don't want to overwhelm her with too many extra classes. I do think it's important for her to have free play time with her classmates, too. We will also be starting swimming classes in a few months, so there's that, too.
Re: Extracurricular classes?
DS only goes to preschool 2 days per week in the mornings. Right now he's also in gymnastics and swimming lessons. I'm planning on putting him in soccer in the spring (when gymnastics and swimming are done).
Personally, I don't want to overwhelm my DS with activities but I'm a sahm so I like to have some scheduled things going on. I've also liked the structure these activities provide and that he's learning to listen to other adults.
My daughter does 2 extracurricular classes at school (ballet & soccer). They are both once a week and they cost about $50 a month total. If each were $50 a month, we'd probably drop one of them. She also does swim lessons once a week. I think swimming is an essential life skill, so that one is non-negotiable. The other activities she genuinely seems to enjoy. She was able to try both of them for 2 weeks before we were required to enroll, and that helped us a lot with our decision. I also don't want to overwhelm her with too many activities, but I do want to encourage her interests. Right now, she's interested in both of them. She still gets plenty of play time throughout the day.
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DD#1 (5) is in pre-k 4 mornings. She has tae kwon do 2 afternoons a week, swim once a week. For the foreseeable forever future.
DD#2 (3.5) Is in PreK 3 mornings. She does swim only.
DS (3.5) is in preK 3 mornings. He does nothing else. He is very clingy and not ready. He was in early intervention for 1.5 years and had speech twice a week, OT once a week and PT once a week twice a month. It was too much. He promises he'll try swim when he's 100.