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Devestated

Our BM who we were matched with for 7 months decided to parent today, 3 days before her induction.  Where do we go from here?  Our hearts ache.

 

 

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  • So sorry! What a loss for you guys. Praying for you as you come to terms with this change! Your child is out there, and I will be praying that he or she finds you soon.

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  • I'm so sorry. Pamper yourselves as you mourn this loss.  We are here if you want support during this time. 

  • I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending T&Ps your way, hoping your baby makes it to you soon!
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  • Oh my Gosh, I am so sorry, there are no words. Take time to grieve, this is a huge loss :/
    Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Oh, I am so sorry! Sending T&P your way. ::hugs::
  • I am soo sooo sorry, Tiffany.  I know that hurt too well.  Cling tight to your spouse and know that there are many of us in the adoption world that have walked your walk and are here for you.  (If you aren't in our FB group, consider joining.  We can have more candid conversations in a safe place.) 

    I wish there were words I could share that would help.  Only time and understanding that comes with time will help you.  Peace be with you.  I will pray for all of you. 

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    I am soo sooo sorry, Tiffany.  I know that hurt too well.  Cling tight to your spouse and know that there are many of us in the adoption world that have walked your walk and are here for you.

    I wish there were words I could share that would help.  Only time and understanding that comes with time will help you.  Peace be with you.  I will pray for all of you. 

    Tiffany,  my wounds aren't as fresh, but we were there too not long ago.  I am sooo sorry.  It sucks big time and I am angry with you.  This whole process is so unfair.  I am just glad you weren't at the hospital and taking care of your expected LO before she told you.  Vent away if you want.  I was angry with the world for a good 3 weeks.

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  • I am so, so sorry (( Hugs ))


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  • I'm so sorry, take some time to heal and be kind to yourself. It sucks, but you will get through this. ((hugs))
  • I am so sorry
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  • As others have said, there are no words other than sorry and you'll be in our thoughts.  Please take care of yourself.

    We have the same diagnosis (unicornuate uterus) . . . you don't see that very often.  I know what a hard road it can be to parenthood.  One day, you will be rocking your baby.  Have faith.

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  • I am sorry.  We hope you all get through this.  If I were in your shoes I would be devasted as well.
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  • So so sorry. Much love and healing.
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     (If you aren't in our FB group, consider joining.  We can have more candid conversations in a safe place.) 

     

    How do we find the facebook group?! 

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  • So sorry
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  • I am so sorry for your loss!

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  • ((hugs)) I'm so sorry. 
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