My first dilation check is next week, and I'm just curious/paranoid about what I'm in for. I imagined it would be similar to a pap smear with the whole feet in stirrups, weird plastic device holding my lady bits open, etc. I also heard there might be soreness or spotting afterward or the next day.
Any advice on the amount of pain/discomfort, and how long the check lasts would be greatly appreciated. I also realized my check is the day before Valentine's Day so... *ahem* do you think I'll be up for any romance the day after a dilation check?
Re: What to expect for dilation check?
Basically your feet are in stirrups and your doctor will check with her hands.. No real instruments. I guess if your cervix is pretty far back it could be uncomfortable and take longer, but usually it's just a few seconds.
Cramping is also normal and I know it's caused some people to lose their mucus plug [me included]. I know spottig can be normal too but I would probably call if I experienced that.
My first one was this morning. No stirrups for me, just heels together and knees spread. It didn't hurt and wasn't even uncomfortable to me at all and I don't have a high pain tolerance. It was really quick and did not involve instruments at all.
My doctor did day expect some spotting, but I haven't had any. I did have a cramp right after, while I was sitting up, but nothing else.
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I feel like the knees spread and heels to bum thing is so demeaning and humiliating. I'm very good at avoiding Pap smears, but last time I went to go get one, the Dr. asked me to assume the above mentioned position. Gawd, I can only imagine how unattractive that view must have been.
It makes me flush red with embarrassment just thinking about it, lol.