FFFC

joshandpanda · February 2013

whats going on this week?

littleredfish · February 2013

I know it's mainly because I'm so tired, but I'm getting really resentful that DH is still on parental leave when our child is in daycare now. (Long story, but essentially he took the whole 9 month leave and I was off without pay and now had to go back to work to help pay bills and he saw no point going back early since work was topping him up to 97% of his pay while off anyway).

Meanwhile, I'm juggling 2 jobs, ended up working on both of my days off this week, was asked to work on my NEXT day off so it looks like from my last day off to my next I'll end up working 17 days straight while he hasn't been to work since June. I'm the one who gets up early to take DD to daycare, I'm the one who get's up with her at night. I've already told him how I feel and he's tried to clean up more and even put his videogames away which made me super hopeful, but that lasted the first week and they are back out again. I don't know if he expected a medal for cleaning the house for a week and thought he deserved a break. I swear if I didn't love the man, I'd punch him right in the throat right now.

My FFC is the fact that the past few days I've been super passive aggressive about it. I'm just so tired of discussing it and getting nowhere I've come down to being a total *** just cause I feel like it. I actually had the thought today that I can't wait for him to go back to work on Monday. Not because I think it will make things more "fair" but because he hates his job right now (he's in the process of changing trades) and I got some sort of twisted satisfaction out of him having to go back to a job he hates. I realize that makes me kind of a d-bag but I'm just so effing tired and that's why it's my FFC.

joshandpanda · February 2013

littleredfish:
I know it's mainly because I'm so tired, but I'm getting really resentful that DH is still on parental leave when our child is in daycare now. (Long story, but essentially he took the whole 9 month leave and I was off without pay and now had to go back to work to help pay bills and he saw no point going back early since work was topping him up to 97% of his pay while off anyway).

Meanwhile, I'm juggling 2 jobs, ended up working on both of my days off this week, was asked to work on my NEXT day off so it looks like from my last day off to my next I'll end up working 17 days straight while he hasn't been to work since June. I'm the one who gets up early to take DD to daycare, I'm the one who get's up with her at night. I've already told him how I feel and he's tried to clean up more and even put his videogames away which made me super hopeful, but that lasted the first week and they are back out again. I don't know if he expected a medal for cleaning the house for a week and thought he deserved a break. I swear if I didn't love the man, I'd punch him right in the throat right now.

My FFC is the fact that the past few days I've been super passive aggressive about it. I'm just so tired of discussing it and getting nowhere I've come down to being a total *** just cause I feel like it. I actually had the thought today that I can't wait for him to go back to work on Monday. Not because I think it will make things more "fair" but because he hates his job right now (he's in the process of changing trades) and I got some sort of twisted satisfaction out of him having to go back to a job he hates. I realize that makes me kind of a d-bag but I'm just so effing tired and that's why it's my FFC.

this sucks... im so sorry...

bellelamb · February 2013

littleredfish:
I know it's mainly because I'm so tired, but I'm getting really resentful that DH is still on parental leave when our child is in daycare now. Long story, but essentially he took the whole 9 month leave and I was off without pay and now had to go back to work to help pay bills and he saw no point going back early since work was topping him up to 97 of his pay while off anyway.
Meanwhile, I'm juggling 2 jobs, ended up working on both of my days off this week, was asked to work on my NEXT day off so it looks like from my last day off to my next I'll end up working 17 days straight while he hasn't been to work since June. I'm the one who gets up early to take DD to daycare, I'm the one who get's up with her at night. I've already told him how I feel and he's tried to clean up more and even put his videogames away which made me super hopeful, but that lasted the first week and they are back out again. I don't know if he expected a medal for cleaning the house for a week and thought he deserved a break. I swear if I didn't love the man, I'd punch him right in the throat right now.
My FFC is the fact that the past few days I've been super passive aggressive about it. I'm just so tired of discussing it and getting nowhere I've come down to being a total *** just cause I feel like it. I actually had the thought today that I can't wait for him to go back to work on Monday. Not because I think it will make thingsnbsp;more "fair" but because he hates his job right now he's in the process of changing trades and I got some sort of twisted satisfaction out of him having to go back to a job he hates. I realize that makes me kind of a dbag but I'm just so effing tired and that's why it's my FFC.

No flame here! Your a better person than me, I'd be throwing a fit and insisting he so ALL the house work shopping cooking ect. I hope it gets better soon.

bellelamb · February 2013

I told my kids to shut up in the middle of the night last night. I am so tired its been two years since I've gotten any kind of normal sleep and I was trying to put lo back in his crib after feeding him and my toddler woke up and they wouldn't sleep. Not my finest mommy moment!

stemms8810 · February 2013

I can't stand it when my teacher friends are always hoping for snow days and get upset when it doesn't happen. You have the whole summer off! Who cares!

selockar · February 2013

littleredfish:
I know it's mainly because I'm so tired, but I'm getting really resentful that DH is still on parental leave when our child is in daycare now. (Long story, but essentially he took the whole 9 month leave and I was off without pay and now had to go back to work to help pay bills and he saw no point going back early since work was topping him up to 97% of his pay while off anyway).

Meanwhile, I'm juggling 2 jobs, ended up working on both of my days off this week, was asked to work on my NEXT day off so it looks like from my last day off to my next I'll end up working 17 days straight while he hasn't been to work since June. I'm the one who gets up early to take DD to daycare, I'm the one who get's up with her at night. I've already told him how I feel and he's tried to clean up more and even put his videogames away which made me super hopeful, but that lasted the first week and they are back out again. I don't know if he expected a medal for cleaning the house for a week and thought he deserved a break. I swear if I didn't love the man, I'd punch him right in the throat right now.

My FFC is the fact that the past few days I've been super passive aggressive about it. I'm just so tired of discussing it and getting nowhere I've come down to being a total *** just cause I feel like it. I actually had the thought today that I can't wait for him to go back to work on Monday. Not because I think it will make things more "fair" but because he hates his job right now (he's in the process of changing trades) and I got some sort of twisted satisfaction out of him having to go back to a job he hates. I realize that makes me kind of a d-bag but I'm just so effing tired and that's why it's my FFC.

No flame here either.... I would have told him to keep lo while I was at work. Plus, do all the cleaning and shopping.

pc150805 · February 2013

I hate Fridays! I work at a University and it is so boring. There are no classes so students are no where to be found, no faculty are in, and it's the end of the week so I have very little work to do. I wish I could go home and play with LO but I have to be here just in case. Blah!

selockar · February 2013

This week I gave lo a chick fil a kids meal. It was grilled chicken and applesauce. I don't really think it was that bad. But, I'm sure some people would find this flame worthy.

joshandpanda · February 2013

zoeygirl1105:
For some reason we started doing rock,paper,scissors over who has to give the baby a bath. Whoever "wins" does the dishes instead because apparently that's less work. I've secretly been trying to let him win so that I can give her a bath. I Hate dishes!!! But he always thinks he got the better deal. I don't want to tell him I prefer bath time because I will somehow get stuck doing the dishes too.

HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is too funny!!! I would also much rather do bathtime than the dishes!!!

bellelamb · February 2013

sarahe101:
This week I gave lo a chick fil a kids meal. It was grilled chicken and applesauce. I don't really think it was that bad. But, I'm sure some people would find this flame worthy.nbsp;

No what is flame worthy is the cookie I gave ds today so I could eat mine peacefully!

joshandpanda · February 2013

bellelamb:
sarahe101:
This week I gave lo a chick fil a kids meal. It was grilled chicken and applesauce. I don't really think it was that bad. But, I'm sure some people would find this flame worthy.nbsp;
No what is flame worthy is the cookie I gave ds today so I could eat mine peacefully!

or me giving Kyler 1...2... ok, 3 sips of carbonated water a few nights back... he was pulling it towards his mouth, so I said ok... lol...

MrsH11710 · February 2013

pc150805:
I hate Fridays! I work at a University and it is so boring. There are no classes so students are no where to be found, no faculty are in, and it's the end of the week so I have very little work to do. I wish I could go home and play with LO but I have to be here just in case. Blah!

I work at a college too so I understand your boredom. Sometimes Fridays are nice though, for the reasons you listed! But it can get boring and it is definitely better to be home playing with LO. Hope you get to leave a little early at least!

MrsH11710 · February 2013

zoeygirl1105:
For some reason we started doing rock,paper,scissors over who has to give the baby a bath. Whoever "wins" does the dishes instead because apparently that's less work. I've secretly been trying to let him win so that I can give her a bath. I Hate dishes!!! But he always thinks he got the better deal. I don't want to tell him I prefer bath time because I will somehow get stuck doing the dishes too.

Hilarious!

selockar · February 2013

joshandpanda:
bellelamb:
sarahe101:
This week I gave lo a chick fil a kids meal. It was grilled chicken and applesauce. I don't really think it was that bad. But, I'm sure some people would find this flame worthy.nbsp;
No what is flame worthy is the cookie I gave ds today so I could eat mine peacefully!
or me giving Kyler 1...2... ok, 3 sips of carbonated water a few nights back... he was pulling it towards his mouth, so I said ok... lol...

I was just lurking on the 6-9 board. Someone posted about how awful they thought it was when someone was giving there 8.5 month old a chick fil a kids meal. haha!!! She'd flame us all!!!

TabClark · February 2013

bellelamb:
littleredfish:
I know it's mainly because I'm so tired, but I'm getting really resentful that DH is still on parental leave when our child is in daycare now. Long story, but essentially he took the whole 9 month leave and I was off without pay and now had to go back to work to help pay bills and he saw no point going back early since work was topping him up to 97 of his pay while off anyway. Meanwhile, I'm juggling 2 jobs, ended up working on both of my days off this week, was asked to work on my NEXT day off so it looks like from my last day off to my next I'll end up working 17 days straight while he hasn't been to work since June. I'm the one who gets up early to take DD to daycare, I'm the one who get's up with her at night. I've already told him how I feel and he's tried to clean up more and even put his videogames away which made me super hopeful, but that lasted the first week and they are back out again. I don't know if he expected a medal for cleaning the house for a week and thought he deserved a break. I swear if I didn't love the man, I'd punch him right in the throat right now. My FFC is the fact that the past few days I've been super passive aggressive about it. I'm just so tired of discussing it and getting nowhere I've come down to being a total *** just cause I feel like it. I actually had the thought today that I can't wait for him to go back to work on Monday. Not because I think it will make thingsnbsp;more "fair" but because he hates his job right now he's in the process of changing trades and I got some sort of twisted satisfaction out of him having to go back to a job he hates. I realize that makes me kind of a dbag but I'm just so effing tired and that's why it's my FFC.
No flame here! Your a better person than me, I'd be throwing a fit and insisting he so ALL the house work shopping cooking ect. I hope it gets better soon.

You are a better person!! I would NOT deal with that at all!

littleredfish · February 2013

Thanks for the support ladies. I hate airing dirty laundry but it's nice to have an anonymous outlet for my frustration.

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