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Anyone go PT? Advice Needed

I feel like I've reached my limits with this FT schedule.  I'm a director, so I have many responsibilities, and DH has a busy demanding job also, and the combination is just wearing me down.  The past month I've been sick with this or that, I've missed 4 days of work and I really don't even care that much anymore - I am just fried.

I don't want to quit, but I want to try to regain some sanity in my life, so I am thinking about asking to reduce my responsibilities, cut back to 4 days three weeks out of the month, and 5 days one week a month (I'm an accountant, so I would work FT during close week).  There is someone who works for me who could get a little bump to take over some of my responsibilities.

Has anyone done this and how did you go about it?  Did you put everything down on paper first, or pitch it and then write down a detailed plan?  Did you do a trial period, and then revisit after 90 days or so?

And if you did cut down to 4 days from 5 did it make that much of a difference in your sanity?  I'm not even sure if this is going to be enough cutting back, but I'm thinking it's got to help, right?  I'd love to go to three days, but that's not possible with my job and would mean looking for a new job entirely. 

 

Re: Anyone go PT? Advice Needed

  • Well, I was asked by my manager to cut down my hours from 40 to 32 last month.  We are very slow and I gathered this was her way of saving my job, which I appreciate.   So, for the last month or so, I have been working four days a week and have every Friday off.  I LOVE IT!  It is amazing how much one extra day off has given me.  I truly feel as though I have work/life balance. 
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  • I cut down to four days and also less hours during those four days but I had to find a new job to do it.  I'm in accounting also.  Right now I work M-Th 9-4 and normally at month end I work a few hours on Friday, like 9-12.  It has made me a lot less stressed and I don't feel like I'm missing out with DS as much as I used to. 
  • Speaking as a Director myself, I really don't see how exec-level staff could go part-time.  Are other members of your executive team working such an abbreviated schedule?
  • I was lucky.  My boss is really cool and told me while I was pregnant that she wanted to keep me and was willing to be flexible.  So during maternity leave I asked to work 30 hours a week when I returned.  We put it in writing and now I get less vacation time, pay a bigger portion of my insurance premium, and of course get paid less but it's totally worth it!  I'm off on Wednesdays.  I work for a university so I hired a grad student to help with my workload. 
  • Actually, it IS possible depending on your type of business and supervisor. One of my directors who playes a HUGE role at my job, now works part time 3 days a week. I think she partially telecommutes from home on the 2 days she's off, and comes in for mostly meetings the other days.

    It's defintiely feasible, but just make sure you have a solid plan in writing, and pitches to your supervisors how going part time will save THEM money.

    I'm seriously thinking of telecommuting myself (about 2 days a week), althoug my job is not at managerial status. I'm slowly gathering info from HR, and other websirtes on how to come up with a great presentation for my director.

    Good Luck!

  • I went from working FT to PT, but I had to change jobs. There was a need in another dept where I already had training in and I asked if I could move to this other dept to help out on the condition I would work PT. Then when I am ready to go back to work FT I will have to go back to my old job. I basically just had a sit down with my supervisor and asked her to talk to the director about it. They agreed. It made a WORLD of difference going from 5 days to 3. It really helped me survive when DD was not STTN and I was still BF and pumping at work. Now that DD is more older, STTN, and now on all table food I am ready to go back to work FT.

  • imageRoxyLynn:
    Speaking as a Director myself, I really don't see how exec-level staff could go part-time.  Are other members of your executive team working such an abbreviated schedule?

    There are other directors who work 4 days a week, but they are in other depts.  There is also a Senior Manager in our dept who has been working three days a week for a few years now.  She is going to 4 days a week next year, and is getting promoted to director at that time.

     

  • I work 4 days a week now, most weeks.  I usually end up emailing or doing some work on that fifth day, but it made a HUGE difference for me as far as catching up on house things, spending time with DD and my sanity.  Good luck!
  • imageHappyKay:
    I'm seriously thinking of telecommuting myself (about 2 days a week), although my job is not at managerial status. I'm slowly gathering info from HR, and other websirtes on how to come up with a great presentation for my director.

    Telecommuting and reducing hours to PT are not the same thing at all.  When you telecommute, you put your kid in daycare and work exactly as if you were in the office and on exactly the same schedule, but at home.

  • I reduced my hours by 20%, but it didn't work well for me.  It made me crazy in the office and crazy at home.  I went from handling probably 80% of the work at home to handling 100%.  And, my workload didn't really reduce at work.  I went back FT after 3 mos and was much happier to not be so crazy at work and have a little energy left for things to be crazy at home. 
  • I approached my boss is April with the possibilty of working PT.  I had a typed up proposal and a clause to revisit at 30 days, 90 days, and six months to see if it was working.  He shot me down by the time I got the word part time out of my mouth. . .   But I work in a male dominated company in a male dominated industry in a male dominated team so I didn't expect too much.  They could just find a man who wouldn't want to work part time. 

     Sounds like you might have a better shot!  Good Luck!

    Mama to Lucy (7/06), Lexi (5/09), and Max (11/11) M/C 12/17/10
  • Okay, Roxylynn, I know that. I was sharing a similar issue as far as how to prepare to present a change in work schedule/condition, not saying it was the same thing.
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