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looking for mommies to talk problems out with

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Since i've been pregnant, my husband and I have had fight after fight. I know emotions run HIGH when pregnant, but I just wonder if it's just me and I should stick it out...or is it time to move on? Help!

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Re: looking for mommies to talk problems out with

  • LoCarbLoCarb member

    It's easy to blame things on hormones but you may be overlooking a bigger issue. Not to scare you but the fighting may get worse after LO is born. The first 6mo-1yr is very difficult on the parents b/c of exhaustion, adjusting to a new routine and caring for someone who has limited communication and in-mobile. When ppl are tired they are mean.

    I suggest try counseling first if both parties are willing. It may help to have a 3rd party listen to your concerns and help you communicate through them.  Also, I suggest the book Baby Proof your Marriage. GL! I've been there before.

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  • mootwinsemootwinse member
    We are going to counseling as well.  It is nice to have a 3rd party to help sort things out.  And our homework this week is two scheduled dates!  GL
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  • crystalite2004crystalite2004

    I suggest counseling as well.  You definitely don't want to make such a huge decision when you're emotional.  Counseling will help you both to see what the other may be struggling with.  Maybe DH is worried about finances with a new baby, or being a parent in general.  In my experience and with my friends, it's more difficult for SO's to feel a connection with the baby until baby arrives.  GL to you!

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