Need some thoughts from you if you don't mind. Most of my husband's family lives out of state. I'm having a baby shower in March and while I'd of course love for them to come I don't expect them to drive 12 hours for a shower.
So my question is, should I send them an invite? It seems like the obvious answer is yes but I don't want to make them feel obligated to attend or like I am expecting a gift even though I know they can't make it.